Bro, calm down.
Don’t get bitter, get better.
Failed dates are just like everything else… reps. You can either let them break you down and weaken you, or you can recover from them and adapt and get better.
You get a C on a math ready do you just say “%$#& math?” Or do you study more for next time?
Every time you fail at anything, just remind yourself “reps”. Use your failures to make you better. Do a post mortem like a football game. “What did I do well?” What could I have done better?"