[quote]WolBarret wrote:
To all the ladies that replied:
If you can’t have females as friends, how can you trust a guy as your friend?
Do you ever consider that he’s your friend because he’s trying to do you?
Quick Sample:
Ted says: Ha ha, you sure are funny Brenda. Ha ha ha!
Ted thinks: Jesus, I have to make my move on her quick. I can’t take anymore bad jokes[/quote]
This. I’m not a big believer in men and women as no strings attached friends. I hang with men, laugh, am friendly and have an awesome time. However, the bottom line motive for one person, whether they realise it or not, is the old in-and-out. Always bear that in mind.
I’m not saying opposite sexes can’t be friends. It’s just that there is always that element to it. I have to wonder if some women don’t prefer that type of friendship because it makes them feel good; a bit of ego stroking. I’d be the last one to say, I don’t like it.
However, it’s my female friends who tell me what I should hear, not what they think I want to hear. They are more likely to give me a kick up the ass, tell me to suck it up and move along. It’s a stronger, more equal relationship. That’s what makes them deeper and more enduring to me.
I have to wonder about people who decide they can’t be friends with an entire gender; particularly when it’s their own. You don’t have to curl your hair, dress pretty and have little dogs in your purse; just be open to female friends more like yourself. There seem to be a ton of us socially awkward, blunt, spastic women out there.