I searched the site and there have been a few threads on this, I know this is an internet forum so I will get all kinds of replies here but what is the verdict on this?
I personally do not have any girls that are “friends” that I talk to regularly because I have a girlfriend, one female in my life aside from family is enough for me. Most of the females that I know from school or work I would fuck if given the chance and not in a relationship.
My gfriend on the other hand is very different, she feels girls are catty and has quite a few male friends, we have been together a while and it has been a hot topic and started some shitstorm conversations that have ended very heated. I do not want to be a controlling boyfriend but for some reason I am bothered by her having male friends she spends time with and I am not sure why, if she every cheats on me I will just say fuck it and find someone new but I suppose I feel somewhat dissrespected? not sure.
recently she went on a business trip with her sister, they met a a group of guys and her sister fucked one of the guys, and my girlfriend has been talking about this new guy nonstop and im sure has texted him numerous times and has been on facebook with him for hours, Im not sure to what extent here.
I have a fantastic relationship otherwise but I feel she is very naive and constantly tells me their relationship is not about sex or physical attraction, but I guarantee this guy wants to fuck her. Im 30yrs old and she is 26, we have been together 3.5 years and this comes up every so often and it gets worse each time with regard to the fighting. not sure what posting this will do but hopefully I can get some good feedback from hopefully some men and women.
I dont think I am a narrow minded or controlling person but I simply have a hard time wrapping my head around the fact that sooner or later there will be some physical sexual incident or situation sooner or later by either party.