Big Chief,if your wife doesn’t mind being married to a porno actor she wouldn’t consider it cheating.I’d like to know if yall think married porn stars are committing acts of infidelity in their skin flicks or if regular actors are cheating when they do their bucknaked sex scenes.I think it’s a little hypocritical to accuse someone in a porno of cheating and all the while accepting movie sex(yeah,i know they don’t actually have sex in the regular movies).
Mike the Librarian: Marriage probably isn’t for everyone. I honestly didn’t think it was for me. I was pretty wild from 18-22 and I don’t regret one minute of it. Then I met the woman I decided to marry. I’ve also never regretted that.
Hedonism is cool, you get to have sex with whoever you can catch etc. Marriage to the right girl is better, at least for me. I still have hot sex fairly frequently with somebody that knows how to push all my buttons, not just the obvious ones. We have a shared history and a long term friendship. I’m not with her because of the contract or the ring, I’m there because I want to be, every day.
We share more than just sex and a house. It’s not all happiness and bliss but on the whole I think it was well more than worth it. Hey, how many women do you know that will hunt deer with you and then forgive both you and your horse when you shoot a deer and he runs her over in a blind panic? She’s worth every bruise on my ego and the few tears I’ve shed in the last 20 years I’ve known her. It ain’t for everybody but it sure is good for those it fits.
Mike The Libertarian has a point…marriage is purely a cultural construct. My view of marriage was totally shaken up when I took college level anthropology courses. In them, you will find that in most cultures, marriages are arranged purely by economic and social strategies, and the concept of ‘love’ and marriage in our culture is totally a foreign idea to most. If you want to fuck different people (perfectly healthy and normal), just choose not to be married in our culture…it’s that simple.
Michelle. you know…When your school teacher told you that you should use your head in life… he didn t mean “that way”… Do you have any idea how stupid a cock-sucking woman looks like?..please!
Het everyone- Wanna know something funny? Mike the Libertarian is Mike Mentzer! I have no idea why Mentzer frequents a site that makes fun of him to no end… but, nonetheless, its true!
F.Slim.So what? It is obvious that mike mentzer sees the world in a more mature kind of way…In a way you can not possibly understand.you see… those who make fun of other people are terribly missguided, they are confused…lost.Now…where did I put ayn rands phone number…
Unbelievable. When I read Aron’s first post, I thought I was gonna puke. I was pleased to see the rest of the forum agreed with me. But the most unbelievable thing is, the guy keeps writing more posts! Aron, if you think a woman looks stupid when she’s giving head, you have a serious problem. And it’s probably self-hatred. Why else would somebody not want to watch a woman give them head? Girls, please don’t listen to this guy; I think a girl looks sexy as hell when she’s going down on me!
SteelyEyes, you can have the same relationship you have now, with the same woman, but without the absurd contract called marriage. Rejecting marriage does not entail rejecting monogamous relationships.
Mike the Libritarian, I can respect your views as you see marriage as an absurd contract, but do not assume your views are the only correct way of thinking about it. Marriage has been around since the beginning of man and every single culture in the world adopts some form of it. To disregard the magnitude of its existence as “Those people were all just stupid until I came up with this brilliant revelation that you do not need it.” is somewhat foolish. It may seem retarded, but one of the purposes of marriage is to keep people together even when they are tired of each other. This does not serve the purpose of the husband and wife, but rather the kids that are involved. Unfortunately, evolution dealt us a nasty blow that requires a lengthy and involved pair-bond to successfully propagate our species. This is because humans mature very slowly compared to, say, an alligator. You can simply read the news paper to find out the result of unsuccessful pair-bonds. Hence, marriage is a cultural adaptation of the requirement nature gave us. Also, keep in mind that this is only one possible reason for the existence of marriage. The list can be long and mysterious. You cannot simply disregard to function simply because you can’t find a good reason for its existence. The reason is probably out there, but you have yet to discover it.