What I hate is that there a couple of
Queen Bee influencers in my sourroundings, and they are essentially the opposite of my character. To their Estrogen, I am Testosterone. To the Union-worker mentality, I am the Savage Capitalist. To their sensitivity, I willingly choose to not give in their comments (co-dependence / encouraging the victim stance). You get the idea. A single few loud
victims vs the big bad
My biggest beef is that I tolerate their difference. Do I get the same back? Sort of. But I suspect one of these influencers to backstab me. She
s the type thats always smiling in front of management, always agreeing with them, but the minute they are absent the venom starts pouring. For the bosses, she looks perfect. For people like me stuck around her, we get the whole enchilada of neg vibes the minute management is absent. I call it hypocrisy. Nothing extraordinary there. She can do it as much as she want. But the minute I suspected she used the same process against me, that`s where I started boiling.
Vroom’s definately got the right mindset.
Just get back at them man.
Load on the sexism.
“How come this floor is still dirty, aren’t you all women?”
“Of course men are filthy. We gotta give you something to do.”
“Your attempts at humor very much amuse me.”
But overall, you can’t take this thing personally. Women are constantly testing you. Everything is a test. Just have fun.
You should never care about what other people think of you, only what you think of you.
The moment you let yourself become “one of them”, a girlfriend, a safe person who is there, you will have squat. No women, no confidence, no self-respect.
Stay true to yourself. Be a man, and don’t take shit, especially from women.
Also, call those complainers on it that it’s annoying, and brings a very negative mood that they’re always complaining.
There’s nothing wrong with being the big, bad male.