I’ve been seeing the same girl for the past 9 months. We moved in together about 4 months ago.
I do somewhat decent but am by no means well off. I have a middle of the road job (maybe just a little above middle of the road) and was finally able to buy a house recently (I’m 29). Anyways, the other night my GF had her friend and friend’s new BF over for two nights. This guy is f’in loaded. Has a Lambo and makes over 1m/year… I can’t even comprehend that kinda dough.
We were out at Sushi for dinner and my GF’s friend was talking about how she gets pretty much everything paid for by this guy (he’s 40 btw and she is 21). My GF then blurts out, “Ya, I have to pay rent.” I shrugged it off at the moment but started thinking about it the past few days (this dinner was on Saturday night). I mentioned it to her today and said that it upset me. She apologized.
I’m confused on what to do here. I’m thinking about just breaking it off. I’m posting this to get opinions from other guys who have been in similar situations. If you have never been in a similar situation please just read.