Regarding your female combat photographer example: From how I read your rendition of her statement, it would seem that she accepts rape as part of the job. Unfortunate and/or wrong as rape is, it is indeed part of the risk. I didn’t gather that she was crying over the inhumanity of it. Good for her. She’s taking her lumps and not crying over it.
Regarding the Georgia O’Keefe thing: That’s exactly why I have zero desire to join the Dog Pound. That, and I am slightly anti-establishment anyway and it just seems too cliquish for me. The unmoderatedness of it is cool but the other aspects are unappealing to me.