I think my wife is in the process of forgetting my birthday!
First off, I’m not fishing for birthday wishes here, but I’m offered a unique situation.
Normally we plan our upcoming birthday parties together (dinner with friends etc…) but this year nothing has been mentioned about any plans, there is no sparkling wine in the fridge and my birthday is tomorrow…or in about 4 hours.
My wife (and I) are somewhat forgetful, however forgetting your spouses birthday is something special. I would like to present two courses of action which I could take.
1). This is my wife and I don’t want her to feel bad about forgetting. I can quite easily drop an oblique hint, which would help her remember, and I could enjoy watching her cover her tracks. In this manner she would save face, and she wouldn’t know that I even thought that she had forgot my b-day.
2). Prank her, say nothing, and reap about 2 solid weeks of great “I’m-so-sorry-I-forgot-your-birthday” type of sex. Of course I wouldn’t hold this over her head, and we both could get a good laugh about her forgetfulness…for many years to come.
A third possibilty is that she’s planning some kind of surprise party, but this is highly unlikely. My kids are away so there’s nobody but us at home, and we spent the afternoon with our best friends, who can’t keep a secret and are so transparent they can’t fool a child.
What would you guys do?
A “helpful hint”, or unlimited apologetic “let me make it up to you sex”?
Don’t hack on my wife for forgetting something like this, shes mine.
Edit: What would you guys do?