I have wide hips (and even wider shoulders thank God). I once dieted down and looked like a coke bottle.
You need a MASSIVE body core. You are lucky, I can tell you the secret:
Squats, Deadlifts, overhead stuff, and solid nutrition.
You have room to develop an impressive
body core which will help you to grow in other areas as well.
Think of it as an opportunity, because it is. This could work to your advantage.