Its almost as bad as jiujitsu guys calling their tournaments and matches "Fights"...
Friend: "I have a fight this weekend"
me: "you're doing MMA now?"
friend: "Oh no, I hate getting hit"
me: "so...you're...not fighting?"
friend: "no it's the _______ open"
me: face to palm
But yes everyone thinks they can fight they need 2 things
1- To see someone who actually can fight move...shadowbox hit pads or whatever
2- to then see a video of them trying to do the same shit so they can see how inept they are flailing around like a fucking fish
3- to then get their ass visciously handed to them by someone who can actually fight
You can do this most effectively in plumb or grappling.