I just went through what was probably the worst night of my life…I found a condom missing from my boyfriend’s drawer even though I am on the pill (Ijust put them there in case I miss my pill)and he lives alone and has had no visitors. When I confronted him, he repeatedly denied cheating on me. He told me that it must have gone in the garbage along with some papers he had thrown away. I let it go thinking that I really didn’t have any actual evidence. Later on last night, I thought I’d rip open a condom package and pretend that I’d found it behind the gargage can. When I did this, he froze and then it all came out. Although I have caught him in some little lies in the past, we had an amazing relationship-or so I thought. I was always there for him whenever he needed me, we were best buddies, I always payed attention to him, told him how attractive and sexy he was and I am an attractive girl. The funny part is that my sex drive is over the top. I usually want it more than he does and he knows I’ve never turned him down. We had a great sex life. I even do my part in attempting to fulfill his stocking and lingerie fetish, but I guess that wasn’t enough. If our relationship was rocky, I could at least blame it on that but I swear, it wasn’t! I can’t believe he went out one night and saw a girl he knows from “around” and brought her home.
Any way, I have been hibernating at his place still because I have been so upset. I don't want to go home or tell any one because I would be too humiliated telling any one and then getting back together with him. He told me it was a one time fling and that he would never do it again. I really believe in forgiving people and not giving up. Please help me! Why would a man cheat in a case like this and should I forgive him? Thank you!