[quote]Spock81 wrote:
HAHAH what an awesome idea.
I never wear form fitting stuff unless I am at the gym. I’d have to buy all new clothes LOL [/quote]
Ugh, do that like yesterday.
Oh Lord No, noooooo fake boobs.
She has that whole nerdy, nice, a bit shy thing going for her, there is no way stripper boobs will help with that.
In fact, single mom + fake boobs = desperate ----> run Forrest, RUN.
Plus, why dye the hair, its nice.
A few highlights, maybe…
Subtle its all there, its just not marketed very well.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
OMG dying my hair black I have always wanted to do that, ha-ha.
But weren’t there threads on T-Nation before about dudes not liking chicks that get all make-uppy and what not?
Oh and no I have no boobs because I diet and workout super hard so it kinda shrunk them a bit.
I am in the process of figure athlete-ing myself though. I HAVE DREAMS !![/quote]
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It’s all about the legs. You can have boobs and be in piss-poor shape. You can’t have great legs and be fat. Never happens. I couldn’t give a flying fuck about cup size unless you look like a guy–and you Spock do NOT at all.
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We like girls who put make-up on. It’s nice to have somebody that can dress classy or likes to look good. I mean…come on who doesn’t want somebody who wants to look good for them??
The dislike starts when you can’t do SHIT with them without them going “oh I gotta get ready! Let me find my make-up”. Monday morning breakfast? Make-up. Saturday post party hangover breakfast? Make-up and dress up. Camping? Gotta find a travel make-up bag.
You see what we’re saying? Schedules sucking are one thing but when you can’t get the chick to do anything spontaneous at all without needing time to “get ready” then most guys and especially myself fucking hate it. It is then not spontaneous any more. Like some weird obsessive compulsive thing where you need an intervention “step away from the make-up case. Put down the eyelashes. It’s 6 am Monday morning and you’re going to the fucking gym!”
Best exchange I ever had, badly paraphrased: “you want to go on a bike ride?” “ok let’s go!” “you don’t want to put different clothes on?” “hell no! I want to ride your motorcycle. I can get ready before the party, Let’s get out in the sun!” … 1 hour later… " do you need to go home and get ready?" “nah, I’ll just throw my hair up, it’ll take 5 minutes” “but I thought you were going to get dressed up?” “I decided I’d rather have fun with you than worry about it”.
Case in point. We like girls who are pretty with make-up. We just prefer somebody not to HAVE to do that with every single thing in the day like an addict. Also, men are DIFFERENT and many like different things.
Win for you doing figure athlete stuff. Epic win, that’s a great goal.
agreed with thethirdruffian
Personally, there is make up and there is make up.
If I see a woman without it and have no idea who she is, thats bad.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Well I am confident at the gym, and I wear nerdy t-shirts/work my ass off. So my nerdyness/confidence should be apparent and still no one talks to me there…[/quote]
I don’t go to the gym to make new friends or pick up chicks or anything like that, I’m there to train. I try to give everyone else the benefit of the doubt and assume they’re doing the same, so I put blinders on and do my thing. Yes, I do notice other people in there, and if I’ve got friends in there odds are we’ll shoot the shit about something during my insanely long rest periods, but I don’t go out of my way to talk to anybody. Especially the people who look like they take what they’re doing seriously.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
[quote]ZJStrope wrote:
Well, to help out with this, we would need some background information akin to something you would see on a Match.com profile. This includes are least one pic =P[/quote]
Oh, whoopsie doodle!! I posted my pic in the other thread before I realized duffman started my own thread for me, LOL.
(Thanks)
UM BACKGROUND I guess…
I’m 27 years old
I have never had a boyfriend
I have been on ONE actual date and he brought his friend so some say it doesn’t count
I get laid once every 18-24 months and I basically have no idea what i’m doing/have no experience
Literally every single guy I’ve had a thing for has turned me down in same way, shape or form
I feel that I lack confidence because of the above ^^^
I like a variety of different guys. I don’t really think I crush on dudes that are out of league.
I got knocked up at 19 by a bouncer who was also the dude who popped my cherry or whatever the fuck kids call it these days.
Obviously big red flag, DING DING DING
Avoid the single mother alert!!
But I dunno, my kid is pretty cool and I am getting to the age where lots of dudes have baggage as well. I don’t see why it has to be such a big issue. Plus dudes don’t know I have a kid before they [don’t] hit on me.
I’m somewhat of a nerd, LOL.
I mean, I play pokemon and masturbate to Loki, so I got all that goin’ for me…
Big fan of dinosaurs, would love to meet a paleontologist someday, sigh…
I dunno what else, I don’t really have any real history, haha.
“I am just looking for a guy with a good sense of humor” [/quote]
It’s more than likely because you have a kid, players see single moms as easy targets that put out, well because they do. Anyways, your best bet is nerdy dudes who are a little desparate. This isn’t as bad as it sounds because you will have things in common or just find a single or dad with a kid or kids.
Wow this getting a guy thing is gonna run me up quite the tab, heh.
This has given me a lot of food for thought though. It’s weird that I put in so much effort into my body, but wont take two minutes to really put on eye shadow.
Don’t die your hair black. Likke Orion said, maybe a highlight our two but it almost looks bizarre when a chick dies her hair either really blonde or really black.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Wow this getting a guy thing is gonna run me up quite the tab, heh.
This has given me a lot of food for thought though. It’s weird that I put in so much effort into my body, but wont take two minutes to really put on eye shadow. [/quote]
In the pic in the other thread, do you wear any make up and was it taken with your phone?
[quote]ZJStrope wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Well I am confident at the gym, and I wear nerdy t-shirts/work my ass off. So my nerdyness/confidence should be apparent and still no one talks to me there…[/quote]
Well the gym is a place where, personally, I’ve rarely ever hit on a girl. If I did, it was b/c we happened to be right next to each other and she made it obvious she wanted to talk.
I’m talking more about confidence in social settings.
You may just have to start initiating things 
A lot of nerdy guys are afraid to talk to chicks.[/quote]
I personally never go to the gym to try and talk or hit on girls either. I put in my earbuds and go to work. I have been told I am not the most approachable person in the gym either, but that is just due to people not really knowing me.
No I don’t wear makeup and yes it was taken with my phone…
You look great in the pic from the other thread, Jenn.
[quote]2busy wrote:
You look great in the pic from the other thread, Jenn.
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Where is this other thread?..
[quote]thethirdruffian wrote:
- Everyone will hate me for this, but I don’t see any boobs on you in the picture. Now this may be a poor shirt or bra choice, or you may be flat. Well, get a new bra and shirt, or go get fake boobs for $5000 American. A petit girl with your face and big boobs will have men falling over their dicks to have sex with you.
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Plenty of guys on the committee, though.
[quote]TheJonty wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Well I am confident at the gym, and I wear nerdy t-shirts/work my ass off. So my nerdyness/confidence should be apparent and still no one talks to me there…[/quote]
I don’t go to the gym to make new friends or pick up chicks or anything like that, I’m there to train. I try to give everyone else the benefit of the doubt and assume they’re doing the same, so I put blinders on and do my thing. Yes, I do notice other people in there, and if I’ve got friends in there odds are we’ll shoot the shit about something during my insanely long rest periods, but I don’t go out of my way to talk to anybody. Especially the people who look like they take what they’re doing seriously.[/quote]
Mega ditto on this. I go to train, not socialize. I am single minded, anti-social, and under the headphones. I know many chicks who train hard and they are there to train and they don’t want to be bothered…EVER…during the workout. I respect people who train hard like you Spock and as a result of that I almost never interact with them out of respect for their training time.
[quote]Bauber wrote:
[quote]2busy wrote:
You look great in the pic from the other thread, Jenn.
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Where is this other thread?..[/quote]
Maybe smile with your teeth actually showing could help… But look cute in the photo none the less.
[quote]Aragorn wrote:
[quote]TheJonty wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Well I am confident at the gym, and I wear nerdy t-shirts/work my ass off. So my nerdyness/confidence should be apparent and still no one talks to me there…[/quote]
I don’t go to the gym to make new friends or pick up chicks or anything like that, I’m there to train. I try to give everyone else the benefit of the doubt and assume they’re doing the same, so I put blinders on and do my thing. Yes, I do notice other people in there, and if I’ve got friends in there odds are we’ll shoot the shit about something during my insanely long rest periods, but I don’t go out of my way to talk to anybody. Especially the people who look like they take what they’re doing seriously.[/quote]
Mega ditto on this. I go to train, not socialize. I am single minded, anti-social, and under the headphones. I know many chicks who train hard and they are there to train and they don’t want to be bothered…EVER…during the workout. I respect people who train hard like you Spock and as a result of that I almost never interact with them out of respect for their training time. [/quote]
I’ve heard a tale where, at a gym I train at sporadically, a guy tried to approach one of the girls who takes her training pretty seriously. Before he could get a word out, she took out one earbud, said “Don’t bother,” put her earbud back in and went back to work. He was floored, but everybody I heard about it from thought it was hilarious.