Start training. Work on your approach until you are making progress at a good rate.
That tends to solve questions like this.
And what you used as an example for ramping is not what one would usually do (when using 9-10 reps per set).
You also forget that usually, one would ramp beyond the weight one can use for 3+ same-weight sets for the same number of reps.
Just mentioning that to confuse you a little more.