What the hell is the matter with me?!?!? Why am I so goddamned insecure? I don’t know what my problem is. I’m a good looking guy, have a really good build, have a college degree, and lots of friends. But for some reason I’m so insecure and I don’t know why.
I have a girlfriend and I ALWAYS get bothered when she mentions another guy looks good (usually when she sees pictures of a guy, sometimes celebrities,). And I always get nervous when she hangs out with her friends at bars/clubs/or other hang outs. When she gets a text message on her phone, I get nervous too even though I have no idea what the message says.
I have never told her any of this cause I don’t want her to know this about me. Oh and I have never been cheated on before either so I don’t know why I am like this. I have never been like this before. I used to be pretty secure with myself in the past…I don’t know what’s gotten into me. Any advice or insights?