A hermaphrodite, for those unaware, is someone born with female and male genitalia. In some cases, the clitoris is the size of a penis when aroused and capable of having sex with male or females. In others, there is a fully formed penis and vagina. Most of these individuals are infertile, although there have been some cases of those who were assigned as females impregnating women. I have known one in real life who had a fully functional penis and vagina and while this person called themselves a "she" seemed to be mainly interested in women (although I discovered this information through the confidence of my gay male friend. Go figure.)
My question is for those on this board against gay marriage/sex: who should a hermaphrodite marry? If they marry a male, there will be a fully aroused penis rubbing against a fully aroused penis when they engage in intercourse. In addition, if the male they marry is polite enough to go down on them, the most pleasurable way is going to involve taking the penis in his mouth.
On the other hand, if the hermaphrodite marries a woman, we have two pairs of vagina lips rubbing together during intercourse and those lips will at some point be on the other woman's lips if she goes down on "him".
So, given that gay sex is unavoidable with either sex, who should these people marry?