I’m 27 and I’ve jumped from girl to girl for the majority of my life. It’s exciting and much less stressful while I try to focus on my career growth and other aspects of life.
I met a girl who was a great match for me last November. She is beautiful, has a great personality, and she is a very kindhearted person. I fell for her and it provided me with an excitement that I never felt before. But, as time went on, I started to grow tired of having sex with the same girl and my eyes began to wander.
Since the concept of a relationship was new to me, I just assumed that this was a temptation that I needed to resist to make the relationship work. But, this became more difficult over time and I decided to break it off with her. I still felt like I loved her, but I didn’t trust myself to stay faithful and I didn’t want to hurt her.
Am I just not ready to settle down? I found this girl to be a nearly perfect match, so I don’t think another girl will turn out to be any different. Is it normal to have these feelings while dating? She became more and more attached to me as time went on while I seemed to experience the opposite. Maybe it was because the challenge and excitement of the chase was no longer there.
Any advice is welcome.