Hey guys, just want your opinion on my situation. Ill make it as short as possible. I was with my ex girlfriend for 2 years. It seemed like a perfect relationship, never even an arguement in that time. She was extremely good to me. She asked if she could move in with me, i said sure, as i thought she was the girl i was going to marry.
A week before moving in with me, she starts acting distant, i pressure her as to whats wrong, I ask her if shes sure she wants to be with me and she says shes not sure. Needless to say we break up, which devastated me. A week or 2 later, she comes back says she wants to try again, so we do, but for a few weeks shes giving me too many mixed signals so i tell her enough is enough.
I was truly fucked up for 4 months or so after losing her. OK…heres my dilemma… About a month before she broke up with me i loaned her $1000 which she needed to help her with her rent and bills. Its been 6 months now and she has only paid me $200 back. On top of it she is now engaged to another guy, after knowing him for 2 months. I called her up and blasted her saying its not right to have her ex boyfriends money while shes with someone else, and she needs to at least make regular payments back to me. She called me an asshole saying she cant beleive im acting this way over some money.
I truly don’t need to money right now, but i just want it back as i dont wanna be supporting the girl who broke my heart, while shes engaged to some other guy. At this point alot of my friends are saying just write the money off as a loss and lesson learned, but i cant seem to do that. Its just the principle of the thing, that I want this money back just because what she is doing is so fucking wrong. Although at this point i dont care to even talk to her ever again, should i still hound her about the damn money even though talking to her aggravates the shit outta me, or should i just forget it and write it off and take it as a lesson learned??.
It’s hard to beleive that someone once so loving and so caring could turn into a completely different person. Good thing i never married this girl. Any advice would be appreciated.