Oh man, glad you mentioned that.
I had a rough time with T prop. The ups/downs were doing some real weird shit to me mentally. It was fun for a bit then I realized I was on some sort of rollercoaster ride. Tried it it a couple times, same result. T cyp is fine though.
I totally agree, and I know that’s why my woman’s with me: with that mentality comes tons off other benefits for woman that they absolutely die for.
It’s those betas that are the slaves of woman we laugh and joke about.
This is a subject that could be discussed for hours 
Dude… I didn’t mean any offense…
I’m the beta too…I was the alpha but changed for what I thought was the better after marriage and kids. Now I’m an ATM, a Taxi and a roommate.
For you young guys out there…never lose your edge and ALWAYS keep 2 in the kitty.
Yes that is most important.
Being alpha or beta is a bit cliche, but very much describes the most important thing. It is hard for me to define it. But sex is a very easy and pleasant way to dominate a woman and give her a swirl of emotions
I’d be popping Cialis or Viagra like tictacs at the start of every date. Also stop beating the meat and drinking too heavy.
I am glad to see in 44 responses no one said ‘have you tried men’. Shows a good level of maturity here.
I have experienced the same issue and have been told by doctors it’s in my head. However, when I am properly dialed in, I have zero issues. Continue to experiment and get dialed in until you no longer have issues and stay at the dosage. In terms of what to do in the meanwhile, I have no answer for that. It’s a shitty situation without an easy fix that requires time and experimentation.
I will say to avoid reverting to believing this is psychological or thinking you need to avoid watching porn or going no fap. If you’re dialed in correctly, you’ll be able to watch porn in the morning and fuck at night no problems (and then maybe go again).
I mean of course I’m not talking about 1 time or something like that. I make damn sure the first time is good though, you don’t get a redo on a first impression.
I’m talking about if it’s a consistent issue. It doesn’t matter if you’re putting in the effort if you can’t get results, at the end of the day. You know? You still leave the woman unsatisfied. Eventually, I would say that’s absolutely an acceptable reason to end a relationship.
I understand this opinion, but you’re really gonna say the woman isn’t worth your time if she left you for this? If you’ve got a really great woman, then she should have high expectations. Why would a woman settle for someone who can’t get it up, when they could go get a great guy who can also fuck her right? Like, what would be her reason to stay when she could get everything from someone else? And again, we’re talking about if this is a running issue, not if you can’t get the job done once in awhile. I honestly think it’s shitty to devalue a woman just because she values good sex, and leaves a dude for that reason. That doesn’t make her a bad person or ‘not worth your time’. It probably just means she can do better and she knows it.
this is honestly probably the best answer in here.
I don’t think it matters or not if a reason is acceptable. If a person wants out then that is fine.
I am not convinced having high expectations is a qualifier for being great.
Yeah, great guys who are awesome in bed are around every corner.
Bad is subjective. It is an opinion. It shouldn’t really matter what I think. I don’t think a person is “shitty” for the thoughts they have. Actions are what matters.
Not to mention, most of the guys I’ve ever met who claim they’re “alpha” have horribly low self esteem they’re aggressively trying to hide
well it’s a good thing that’s not what I said. That’s the opposite direction of what I said. I didn’t say if she has high expectations, that means she’s great. lol.
I honestly have no idea how common or uncommon this is. Probably rare and highly valued, but I was kind of assuming that’s the kind of girl we’re talking about too. If we’re talking about a really average girl, that’s a different conversation.
well, yea. everything I said is just an opinion. This entire thread is a bunch of opinions being thrown out there. I shared mine, and I disagreed with yours. Dats it.
guys who talk in terms of ‘alpha’ and ‘beta’ and want to label themselves one or the other, are usually lame, period. If you walk around trying to convince people of your ‘alpha-ness’, you’re probably not the thing you’re trying to project.
Yes because everyone wants to be a true alpha but it doesnt work like that. You either have it inside or do not. The true alphas are dominant but nit aggressive. Have you observed how pitbul behaves around other dogs? They are very calm and relaxed because they know they can destroy the other dog any moment if they have to
Can it be obtained somehow… I dont. Am I alpha for example - in most cases not but in certain situations yes.
You said…
It does seem that you are putting a qualifier on having a great woman (her having high expectations).
I think Alpha that used to be on T-Nation a bunch is awesome. He has gone through quite the health issues though.
ha! well yea, there’s him. An exception to every rule, right? Brian’s an awesome dude, I have nothing bad to say about him.
Many types of men are at the front of the pack. Woman simply like men that know what they want. A woman who has a guy who knows what he wants is a big turn on for her. They also know this guy isn’t going to back down when shit gets rough. He handles business and doesn’t cry like a little bitch every time life sucks.
A beta and alpha can both have this trait. I think the personality of an alpha is someone who other men dont mind looking up to or towards when needed. Look at Elon musk. look at bill gates. they dont look like the typical alpha, yet they are leaders and men who are extremely intelligent. d
Last night I was told by the lady that its more about a man who can take control, knows what he wants and goes after what he wants is what turns them on. They dont care for men who are too shy, dont speak up, they dont tell the woman what they want, their boss, their friends and etc.
End of day she’s saying that woman like men that are confident and focused. They dont settle and they dont back down when the going gets tough.
Man up… said every man… until year 2011. Now its hate speech… haha
As a scholar of fight once said “Fook it”.
Well put bro.
By the way Ive always had some of this qualities but now on TRT it is easier for me to express them
Except in the situations that I dont care
In a lot of situations now I dont care because its like for the first time in my life I feel really good. Maybe this will normalize as well…
This was a tough lesson to learn ---->> None of us are responsible for the happiness of any other person. The magic happens when in the pursuit of our own goals, pleasure, life …we connect with another person. Orgasm together, share together, laugh together. But if either party is looking for another human being to ‘make them happy’ there will be failure. Contentment is a personal journey. A good life partner shouldnt detract from that pursuit, there should be synergies, but its not their responsibility. Technically, you dont need a dick to take control of a woman in the bedroom. Turn a woman into a quivering puddle with your mind and the rest of your body and you can have her begging. But even if you give a woman the best sex of her life. Some are still inconsolable. Tell me if this sounds familiar…‘Will you love me forever?’ ‘If i died how long would you wait to be with another woman?’ ‘Promise me youll take care of me no matter what?’ ‘How much do you love me? Infinity? Infinity times Infinity?’ At some point, all of us men have come across this. And while providing reassurance to a woman and giving them a sense of security is important, there are no promises in life. Certain women are besieged by insecurity. If you have a lot of great sex with them, they are worried that you cant be satisfied. Dont have sex for 2 days? He must be cheating. These women either wittingly or unwittingly will you try to tear you down to feel more secure in an effort to ensure you will not leave them. They want an Alpha but deep down an Alpha scares them. And they will claw until you cave or leave. Unfortunately, I believe many of the most beautiful women fall into this category. Fuck wisely my friends. And dont ever let them get you down.
Truerer words never been spoken. My ex girlfriend was like that. She would always not trust me enough, I would get angry on that and we were swirling this into a hell circle
One of the most dangerous moments in life is when a woman really gets under your skin. I’ve always failed there miserably.
100% with it ! girls need to get bang good or they left
I can agree with what you just said and those woman are out there. I was married to one. Ungrateful and their mind is skewed and they have unrealistic expectations that collide with their other expectations. They want it all and can’t decide what’s important.
I totally agree that a man and a woman should not need each other to be happy: this is a recipe for disaster. Both parties must be in a good place if that relationship is to flourish and stay calm.
I also agree the pretty girls are usually insecure. I managed to find one that is not … how did I find her? That’s another story that may or may not work for others haha