I’d say get aquatinted with bench pressing (or DB pressing), deadlifting, and squatting or a squat variation. By acquainted I mean hammer down technique. YouTube and ample amounts of practice will be your friend. We can only help you so much, the rest is up to you.
Get some decent equipment.
Possibly wrist wraps (although you could use that probably later)
That’s really all you need at the moment.
The women in those pictures are the complete opposite of weak. They’re strong as hell, which means that should be your main focus at the moment.
Build a good strength foundation. I’m really not one for overcomplicated training regimens for a beginner. I progressed very well with a 3x5, or 5x5 linear periodization for a good year when I first started out. The weight doesn’t have to be extremely heavy, but it needs to be challenging enough for you to complete roughly 15-20 total reps with good form.
Do some assistance work: which are basically movements that help bring up any weak areas. There’s a bunch of them. If you’re doing bench or DB work, include something for triceps, traps, upper back, and chest. For deadlifting, do something that also brings up upper/middle/and lower back, hamstrings, and abs. For squatting supplement with glute work, calves, lower/middle back, quads, abs, and hamstrings.
Become well versed in different rep and set schemes. This site has plenty of info for hypertrophy work as well as strength training. Read up till your hearts content.
Get comfortable with seeing the scale not move, or move extremely slowly. When the time comes to start leaning out, you will see all of your hard work, but PLEASE do not become the many women who yo-to back and worth between “bulking” and “cutting” the same 5-15 pounds for months and even years on end. Focus on keeping fat gain to a minimum, while gaining strength.
Cardio should be implemented wisely. Keep it at a minimum, keep it simple. Maybe some swimming, brisk walking, sled pushes, carries, etc.
You’re about 5-7 pounds lighter than I am, and since you’re a beginner I think you’re able to get away with recomping fairly nicely. If you can make it a year, I’d say you can see a possible 20lb muscle gain and even a 20-25lb fat loss. Simultaneously. That’s if you go about this
in a smart way.
You’re more than welcome to lose the weight first, and then go about gaining muscle, I’m just trying to kill as many birds as I can with one stone while not confusing you.
If you’re a calorie tracker, track them. Keep your protein in the 135-140g region. Maybe less. Divvy up the carbs and fats how you see fit for your goals. If you’re not a calorie tracker, keep your protein as mentioned, and get in maybe 3-4 meals a day. Healthy protein sources, no refined carbs, veggies, and decent amounts of fruits and fats.
Other than that, be consistent, and be patient. This is going to take a while. And by a while I mean years. Don’t frustrate yourself with the scale, and stay out of the mirror. Every two weeks or so asses your physique and your strength and go from there. And for the love of everything stay off of YouTube. None of that fluffy glute-kickbacks, donkey kicks, side bend shit that many YouTube chicks always put up on online.
Sorry if this conflicts with other tips you’ve been given. I could be completely wrong in my opinion, nor I am an expert, but I’m not a complete idiot.