What Business is it of Yours Where I'm From, Friendo?

Hope it’s cool if I chime in with some online therapy stuff for ye.

Not sure how old your son is, but while they are still fairly young even up to my age, kids just want to go out and experience the fun in life. I’m pretty sure he isn’t going to look at all the fun he’s having, and blame you for not being the one who Paid for it. When you express that you want your children to go out and have fun, and be kids, they remember that. I understand how as a mom you wish to be the one who provides these types of experiences for you child, but even in situations like these, let him know that as a mommy, you just want to see him happy. Kids watch adults and they see how they react to situations. I’m in no way patronizing you or anything, but it doesn’t make you any less of a mother for allowing your son to experience something he’s always wanted to, whether the money came out of your pocket or someone else’s pocket in the family.

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Awe, thanks for saying that, what a wonderful post :heart_eyes:

I am glad he gets to have his experience and I know someday we’ll get to have it together and it wont be any less awesome just because he’s done it before. :slight_smile:

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K today was fun
and by fun I mean I got all manic and that was kind of annoying
k today was annoying :sweat_smile:

paused bench press

115lbs x 2 sets of 3 (warm up)
122lbs x 5
127lbs x 2 sets of 2
130lbs x 3
132lbs x 2 sets of 2

board press

142lbs x 6
147lbs x 2 sets of 3
150lbs x 3

seated DB shoulder press SS seated DB lateral raise SS DB lateral raises w/pinkies up

37.5lbs/5lbs/5lbs
x 8/ x 15/ x 15
35lbs/5lbs/5lbs
x 6/ x 15/ x 15
x 6/ x 15/ x 15

one am DB lateral raise w/pinkies up SS DB lateral raise w/pause at top SS pinkies up DB lateral raise SS straight arm DB lateral raise

7.5lbs/5lbs/7.5lbs/5lbs
x 12arm/ x 12/ x 12/ x 12
x 12
arm/ x 12/ x 12/ x 12
x 12*arm/ x 12/ x 12/ x 12

uhg

seated rear delt DB fly palms facing eachother SS palms facing in ward SS palms facing each other

5lbs/10lbs/5lbs
x 15/ x 10/ x 15
x 15/ x 10/ x 15
x 15/ x 10/ x 15
norest

facepulls two diff grips SS
20lbs/20lbs
x 20/ x 20
x 20/ x 20
x 20/ x 20

cable rear delt fly
5lbs
x 15arm
x 15
arm

reverse grip D handle tri ext. SS cable tri ext.

10lbs/5lbs
x 10arm/ x 10arm
x 10arm/ x 10arm
x 10arm/ x 10arm
norest

plate front raise

25lbs
x 15
x 20
done

I think I will rest tomorrow and do my super unpleasant squat workout on Thursday
k
NYU
BHYE
BYE

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K today was really good . Did my classic move where I think about a rest day and then I don’t take a rest day because my workout is too overwhelming and I need to get it over with.
Works every time!!

Squats

135lbs x 8 (warm up)
155lbs x 3 (warm up)
175lbs x 3 (warm up)
belt
185lbs x 2 sets of 8
back off sets
165lbs x 8
160lbs x 8

front squats

120lbs x 5
130lbs x 2 sets of 3
105lbs x 10

one leg on bench cable ass kick backs

15lbs x 10ass (straight leg)
10lbs x 10
ass (bent leg)
5lbs x 10 partials * ass (straight leg)
//
15lbs x 10* ass (straight leg)
10lbs x 10*ass (bent )
5lbs x 20 partials *ass (straight)

leg ext.

100lbs
x 2 sets of 8
55lbs
x 15

ass machine

90lbs
x 2 sets of 12*ass

step mill intervals x 20 minutes

NOW I can take an enjoyable rest day :smiley:

K
BYE

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k holy hell today was fantsticooooooo

rest day yesterday

today:

Deadlifts

135lbs x 7
185lbs x 7
215lbs x 7
belt
225lbs x 7
235lbs x 7
245lbs x 7
WOOOOOoooooopppppppppppppp
Whoopity

bent over row (underhand grip) SS sitting sideways lat pull down

105lbs/25lbs
x 15/ x 12arm
x 8/ x 12
arm
x 8/ x 12*arm

overhand grip

95lbs
x 2 sets of 8

cable station lat pull down SS ropey cable pull down

30lbs/20lbs
x 10/ x 15
x 10/ x 20
x 10 + 1 drop 20lbs x 20 partials/ x 25

uhh

one arm DB row SS t bar row

40lbs/ bar + 60lbs
x 10arm/ x 10
x 10
arm/ x 10
x 10*arm/ x 10

medium D handle lat pull down

60lbs x 15
70lbs x 2 sets of 12
55lbs x 12

Ez bar curl SS hammer curl

35lbs/12.5lbs
x 10/ x 10arm
x 10/ x 10
arm
x 10/ x 10*arm

stepmill intervals x 20 minutes

I think I remembered everything
it was busy and people were in my way
In my personal spppppace
which is huge btw,

good news everyone!!

I applied and was approved for a student loan .
Now all that needs to be done is for my to obsessively check to see if they accepted my application to get into the program in the first place!
Which could take a week or 3 months I have no idea…

it’s a 2 yrs program called correctional services
I could be a P O officer
yo, I got to go see my PO
That would be me
or I could work with troubled youth etc…
a rehabilitation program of sorts
I can learn about criminology and counselling …
I am excited so I hope they hurry up and let me know soon or it’s gonna be a lot of tummy aches

kj
BYE

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uhg horrible sleep due to being way too excited for this eeffing workout = not the best , BUT not the worst so here we go!

Bench press

115lbs x 5
125lbs x 3
130lbs x 1
135lbs x 1
140lbs x 2 sets of 1
belt
140lbs x 2
145lbs x 1

was really hoping to get 140 x 3
and actually did 2 sets of 2 but my first set sucked and I knew I could do better
so I set myself up better and got 2 again that felt perfect and when I watched the video I realized I probably could have gotten 3 so I got mad at myself and did 145 x 1 to make up for it
cause 140 x 2 and 145 x 1 seems to be better than 140 x 3
k
ya

paused sling shot

150lbs x 5
160lbs x 2 sets of 2
165lbs x 2

155lbs x 8 (not paused )

incline DB bench SS one arm lying DB press

37.5lbs/25lbs
x 8/ x 10arm
x 8/ x 10
arm
x 8/ x 10*arm

Cable rear delt fly SS DB incline trap raises SS incline rear delt fly palms facing inwards SS palms facing each other

5lbs/7.5lbs/7.5lbs/7.5lbs
x 20arm/ x 12/ x 10/ x 15
x 20
arm/ x 12/ x 10/ x 15
x 20*arm/ x 12/ x 10/ x 15

hammer strength chest press

30lbs
x 12arm
x 12
arm
20lbs
x 15 partials *arm

face pulls two diff grips SS
25lbs/20lbs (all paused)
x 20/ x 10
x 20/ x 10
x 20/ x 10
x 20/ x 10

cable cross over
low setting
10lbs
x 15
x 2 sets of 10

cable bent over tri ext.
5lbs
x 12arm
x 2 sets of 8
arm

bent over DB fly
drop sets
10lbs
x 12
7.5lbs
x 15
5lbs
x 10 (palms facing in) + 10 (palms facing each other )

uhh

db tri kick back

10lbs
x 2 sets of 10*arm
and I am TIREED HOLYSHIT

benching took like 100yrs
this whole workout took half a lifetime to finish
but W/E another cycle of another lift is done
k
BYE

holy mother of GGGGGGGGG I am tired
k

paused squats

135lbs x 8, x 5 (warm up)
165lbs x 10
177lbs x 2 sets of 3
186lbs x 6
190lbs x 2
197lbs x 3

double paused squats

150lbs x 6
160lbs x 4
160lbs x 5

banded full reset paused barbell hip thrusts SS plié squats

185lbs/35lbs
x 8/ x 10
205lbs/35lbs
x 8/ x 10
235lbs/35lbs
x 4/ x 12
255lbs x 4

drop sets (continuous tension)
155lbs x 10
135lbs x 15

ass machine

115lbs x 10ass
100lbs x 2 sets of 8
ass

leg spreader

70lbs
x 2 sets of 50
55lbs x 50 partials

ropey cable pull through
drop sets

42.5lbs
x 10
30lbs
x 15 or 12 I cant remember
20lbs
x 20

stepmill intervals x 20 minutes

K YA
so ready for rest, three killer ones in a row . Save meh, I can’t moveeee.

Ive been trying to rephrase stuff in my head instead of deeming something a “bad workout” or whatever I just say to myself or correct myself like “no, it wasn’t bad, it just bothered your OCD.”
The fuck, I don’t ever have bad workouts. I have amazing manic workouts and workouts that bother my ocd. NUFF SAID
k
BYE

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k today was wonderful
rest day yesterday

Andersen pin squats

135lbs x 2 sets of 5 (warm up)
170lbs x 8
180lbs x 2 sets of 3
195lbs x 6
205lbs x 3

high bar paused squats

150lbs x 6
160lbs x 2 sets of 4
170lbs x 4
back off sets
155lbs x 2 sets of 3

ass machine

130lbs x 8 ass
110lbs x 2 sets of 8
ass

seated leg curl SS lying leg curl

55lbs/40lbs
x 10/ x 10
x 10/ x 10
x 10/ x 10
norest/slow/controlled

straight leg cable ass kick back

10lbs
x 20*ass

stepmill intervals x 20 minutes

anyway
woke up with a sore throat and a hatred for life, but hadda go set some PR’s or whatever
ALso my hip hates me
Actually my entire left side hates me
Everything on my left side hurts from my trap to my calf :confused:

k
BEY
BYE

k today was a fine workout that bothered my ocd so I am being lied to and told that it sucked…

tempo bench press

115lbs x 2 sets of 3 (warm up)
120lbs x 6
125lbs x 2 sets of 3
125lbs x 4
130lbs x 2 sets of 2

board close grip bench press

105lbs x 2 sets of 4
105lbs x 6
115lbs x 3

this was weak AF today so it upset me, IDK why… I think I was making sure that my elbows never flared so I probably couldn’t do as much weight as the first time I tried this when I was less aware .
So basically something good happened and I got upset about it, hmm
Crazy J

k bunch of giant sets of shit

seated DB press SS Arnold press SS straight arm DB lateral raise w/pause at top SS pinkies up DB lateral raise SS 10&2 raises

30lbs/15lbs/5lbs/5lbs/5lbs
x 10/ x 10/ x 10/ x 10/ x 10
x 10/ x 10/ x 10/ x 10/ x 10
x 10/ x 10/ x 10/ x 10/ x 10

cable rear delt fly SS bent over DB rear delt fly palms facing in wards SS palms facing each other SS facepulls one grip SS facepulls diff grip

5lbs/5lbs/5lbs/20lbs/20lbs
x 15arm/ x 15/ x 15/ x 15/ x 15
x 15
arm/ x 15/ x 15/ x 15/ x 15
x 20*arm/ x 20/ x 20/ x 20/ x 20

pinkes up one arm DB lateral raise SS pinkies up DB lateral raise SS straight one arm DB lateral raise SS straight arm DB lateral raise

10lbs/10lbs/5lbs/5lbs
x 10arm/ x 10/ x 12arm/ x 12
x 10arm/ x 10/ x 12arm/ x 12
x 10arm/ x 10/ x 12arm/ x 12

plate raises

25lbs x 15
35lbs x 10
25lbs x 15

DB tri kick back

10lbs
x 12arm
x 10
arm

k done
perfectly good workout ruined by grumpy shit
I feel super tired and super injured all the time like not happy fun hurt more like, oh my god what the hell is going on there?! kinda deal
I honestly haven’t had more than two days off in a row in well over 5 years, probably more
I wish I had the mental capacity to take multiple days off in a row without losing my shit
W?E just a bad mental health day is all .
k
BYE

k today was better

135lbs x 6
155lbs x 6
175lbs x 3
185lbs x 2
(all warm up)
belt
195lbs x 2 sets of 6
back off sets
175lbs x 6
170lbs x 6

front squats

115lbs x 5
120lbs x 5
120lbs x 8

leg on bench straight leg cable ass kick back

20lbs x 8ass
15lbs x 8
ass
10lbs x 8 1&1/2 reps *ass
5lbs x 15 partials *ass

single leg ext.

45lbs x 12leg
40lbs x 2 sets of 10
leg

leg spreader SS leg spreader partials

85lbs/55lbs
x 15/ x 15
x 15/ x 15
x 15/ x 25
norest

leg squisher

115lbs I think
x 2 sets of 12

ass machine

90lbs
x 15ass pumpy
x 2 sets of 8
ass squeezey

stepmil intervals x 20 minutes

back ext.
BW x 30

k done

anyway I decided that if I am going to powerlift I have to just accept the fact that some little things are just going to hurt here and there for whatever reason and I don’t need to freak out about every little twinge .
I am smart enough to know what is an actual injury and what is just normal wow I’m hard on my body this hurts, shit.

Also, need to stop obsessing over my crooked so much . It’s annoying, but I’ve gone to at least 8 different chiro’s and multiple massage therapist and none of them have ever been able to help me. It’s all like, oh, you’re pelvis is twisted/ Or oh you’re hip is out and it’s pulling on the other hip. Or oh your one hip sits higher than the other, or oh wow you’re a puzzle < AKA I have no idea wtf is wrong with you" Wow even your collar bone looks crooked . OH wow you are the tightest person I have ever worked on. Blah blah
K IM TWISTED IKNOW
I squatting itself never really causes me pain so I should just enjoy it I don’t know if there’s much more I can do to De pretzel myself. IDK
k
BYE

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today was GGgGgGGgGGGreat!

rest day yesterday

paused squats

135lbs x 5, x 6 (warm up)
171lbs x 8
181lbs x 2 sets of 3
191lbs x 6
200lbs x 3

double paused squats

160lbs x 5
165lbs x 3
165lbs x 5

banded full reset barbell hip thrust SS ropey cable pull through

205lbs/25lbs
x 10/ x 20
185lbs/25lbs
x 8/ x 20
x 8/ x 20

banded continuous tension barbell hip thrusts SS plié SQ

135lbs/35lbs
x 10/ x 12
x 10/ x 12

ass machine

90lbs
x 15ass
x 12
ass

leg spreader
drop sets
115lbs x 8
100lbs x 8
85lbs x 10
70lbs x 12
55lbs x 25 partials

stepmill intervals x 20 minutes

K good.
Been tryin to get a triple at 200lbs paused for a while now, 2day was the day I guess :slight_smile:

felt like I coulda done 4
uh
BYE

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k good today

block pullz

135lbs x 2 sets of 5 (warm up)
195lbs x 5
215lbs x 2 sets of 3
230lbs x 5
240lbs x 2 sets of 2
back off sets
225lbs x 2 sets of 1

bent over row (alternating between over hand grip and underhand) SS food on seat seated row cable handle lat pull down

95lbs/55lbs
x 12/ x 12
x 12/ x 12
x 12/ x 12
x 12/ x 12

sitting sideways lat pull down SS ropey cable pull down

25lbs/20lbs
x 10arm/ x 10
x 10
arm/ x 10
x 10*arm/ x 20

hammer strength iso lateral row(neutral grip) SS DB row

45lbs per side/ 45lbs
x 8arm/ x 8arm
x 8arm/ x 8arm
x 8arm/ x 8arm

umm

cable station lat pull down

20lbs
x 15
x 15
x 15

D handle cable bi curl

10lbs
x 12arm
x 12
arm

t bar row
bar +
60lbs
x 10
50lbs
x 2 sets of 8

seated DB curl SS hammer curl

10lbs/10lbs
x 10arm/ x10
x 10
arm/ x 10
x 10*arm/ x 10
norest

wide D handle lat pull down (slow neg)

55lbs
x 8
70lbs
x 2 sets of 8

hammer strength front pull down

35lbs
x 12
x 12
x 12

barbell curl

30lbs
x 20

k done
I had to do everything in the whole world because I felt like it had been too long since I did back work
ya
uh
BYE

Well, well, well, SELF! Today was awesome! Woke up so tired, perioding like a nasty and did not want to go. BUT had a great day anyway. #youneverknow

K squats

135lbs x 2 sets of 5 (warm up)
175lbs x 4
185lbs x 4
belt
200lbs x 4
205lbs x 2 sets of 4
back off
180lbs x 2 sets of 4

front squats

125lbs x 2 sets of 4
125lbs x 6

ass machine

150lbs x 2 sets of 6 *ass
110lbs x 12 partials *ass

leg ext.

85lbs x 12
70lbs x 2 sets of 10

single leg ext.

40lbs x 2 sets of 8*leg w/pause

straight leg cable ass kick back

10lbs
x 12ass
x 12
ass
x 12*ass

stepmill intervals x 20 minutes

back ext.
BW
x 30 + 10 (extended set)

shit felt pretty manageable and light today, no doubt I could get 205 for 5’s next cycle if I were to want to program it that way
:slight_smile::smiley:

k
BYE

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I came back to T-Nation.

I creapered (yeah it’s a word) your training log.

Holy shit you got strong.

Well done.

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Why thank ya :smile:. Only took 7 or so years, no biggie :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

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Me returning or you getting strong? Or me congratulating you?

Also, did you see my competition vid from last week?

Me getting strong, but I guess all of them :sweat_smile::sweat_smile:

Just saw it now, good job !! That’s awesome.

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k today was lame
AF

paused bench

115lbs x 2 sets of 3 (warm up)
122lbs x 6
126lbs x 2 sets of 4
132lbs x 1
135lbs x 1

board press

142lbs x 4
145lbs x 2 sets of 3
135lbs x 8

So yes… my bar path was off for like 3 reps so I got upset. Also 135 was slow and I realized I was benching 135lbs paused for singles like a year and a half ago so I’ve gained zero pounds on my paused bench …
I think I used to bench more frequently

seated DB shoulder press SS straight arm DB lateral raise

40lbs.7.5lbs
x 8/ x 15
35lbs/7.5lbs
x 6/ x 15
x 8/ x 15

giant set

straight arm DB lateral raise SS pinkies up DB lateral raise SS 10&2 raises SS front raises

5lbs
x 15/ x 15/ x 15/ x 15arm
10lbs
x 10/ x 10/ x 10/ x 10
arm
x 15/ x 15/ x 15/ x 15*arm

straight arm DB lateral raise w/pause at top SS pinkies up DB lateral raise SS seated DB lateral raies

5lbs/5lbs/5lbs
x 10/ x 10/ x 10
x 10/ x 10/ x 10
x 10/ x 10/ x 10
nroest

oh ya then I realized a giant pimple grew between benching and shoulder work so I got freaked out because it literally looked like someone punched me in the jaw like wtfF. Give a girl some notice…

cable rear delt fly SS facepulls SS bent over rear delt DB fly palms facing inwards

5lbs/25lbs/5lbs
x 15arm/ x 15/ x 15
x 15
arm/ x 15/ x 15
x 15*arm/ x 15/ x 15

one arm cable rear delt fly SS bent over DB rear delt fly palms facing inwards SS facepull diff grip than before

5lbs/5lbs/20lbs
x 20arm/ x 20/ x 20
x 20
arm/ x 20/ x 20
x 20*arm/ x 20/ x 20

DB tri kick back

7.5lbs
x 12arm
x 12
arm
x 12*arm

anyway, ya pretty disappointed.
My not paused bench does have the occasional PR but my paused bench always just goes down or whatever
Even tempo bench seems to increase steadily so IDK.
I think I am going to make sure I always bench 2x’s a week now
Squats always push everything else out of the way

I think Ill have one important for reps bench day and then one other accessory bench day
either tempo + CG or pausdd + board press
And Ill make them not like PR trying days
Just lighter work with really long pauses or really slow descent
like I could bench 130 x 1 for a really long pause with perfect bar path instead of 135 for an anxious pause and weird bar path
k
YES
WHATEVER IT WASNT THAT BAD AHH
k
BYE

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k today went pretty well considering I woke up and literally started crying about how much I didn’t want to go workout today.

NOW, I know what you’re thinking, well clearly take a rest day then, duh. But no, I realized I keep waking up and wishing every day was a rest day. I keep having to argue with myself and tell myself to go, because it’s a depression related thing and depression ruins enough of my life without allowing it to interfere with something that’s so important to me.

So there, I went, I looked weird and I had to wear glasses , but I went.

Andersen pin squats

135lbs x 2 sets of 5 (warm up)
165lbs x 10
175lbs x 2 sets of 3
190lbs x 8

High bar paused squats

155lbs x 5
160lbs x 5
165lbs x 5

seated leg curl (all slow/paused)

70lbs x 12
60lbs x 2 sets of 10
45lbs x 10 partials

leg spreader

55lbs x 100

straight leg standing ass kick back

10lbs
x 2 sets of 8* ass w/pause
15lbs
x 10*ass

stepmill intervals x 20 minutes
kk done

actual rest day scheduled for tomorrow so that’s good.

BYE

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