UPDATE **** on my man from work situation for anyone that lurks here for that lol
He called it off last night . Well first he ignored me all day after talking and laughing all day Monday so I could be nice and confused. He had a bad day , and in that moment he realized I reminded him of someone he hates.
That’s nice to hear…
We agreed that when someone was going to call it off we would give a weeks notice because we’ve gotten kind of used to multiple hours of sex multiple days a week. Cold Turkey would have been hard .
This is hard…
So he came over last night and told me I dont have the qualities hes looking for. When I asked for specifics he said, and I shit you not, you dont drink and I need someone less responsible.
I feel like he gave me a bunch of test questions over all these weeks , and I failed. Instead of just getting to know me he put me on trial.
I’m upset because I was happy before him . I didn’t need the touching or the cuddles or the closeness, but then I got it, and it was taken away, and now I’m devastated. I don’t want to be lonely again . But if hes looking for a fellow non adult, such as himself, at 38 hes going to have a hard time fishing .
Oh well, I guess