Okay here I am yet again Nation asking for advice about a guy.
Anyone that’s been here more than five minutes knows I dont have much luck in this area, but I ain’t no quitter.
You may remember me from such disasters as bald guy 2.0, Marshall, and guy from work.
Well let me present to you today…
The tale of the landlord I like (working title)
Late July I had an appointment to check out a new apartment and upon discussing things in landlords office I realized we had a lot in common. We literally have the same Better Call Saul pop head. We shared much excrement over comic con and other nerd things, but that wasn’t even the best part.
What thrilled me the most was that he talks weird like me. Like this socially awkward rambling, but since we both do it there was never a dull moment or a moment of silence. It was wonderful.
I moved in early August and a shared elevator ride left my face beat red and I realized I really dug this middle aged nerd.
He mentioned he has a daughter , but he is not still with the mom.
I obviously don’t know for sure if he’s single , but he talks in “I”, not we, so the internet said that was a thing.
I went to his office to sign the lease and I told him he reminded me of John Malkovich and he seemed to really be flattered by that.
I was attempting to flirt I guess…
Anyway, more back and forth talk and when I was done I said “um so do you want to be friends ?”
He was like "oh ya for sure "
A few hours later and he texted me casually. We shared random pictures and I talked about stardew valley and showed him a picture of my farm.
He made an effort to keep the conversation going and I was smitten.
The next day I texted him and we talked for a few minutes , but then it ended with me just putting a smiley face. Maybe I should have done more , but I didn’t want to seem annoying.
He hasn’t initiated since and that was Saturday. So Sunday, Monday, Tuesday and nothing.
Can I initiate again? Or is that desperate? If he was into me wouldn’t he do more ?
Can I ask him out ? My birthday is coming up, i could invite ???
Ideas ? Opinions ??