Im so sorry for my uninformedeness, but thats about the maybe 10 women I see in a whole gym, either fat and on the treadmill, or hot and like about an hour at the ass machines.
When I say ugly manly etc., then because I want to be clear, dont want to insult anybody, but training for looks, and training for athletics, is different, and thats the difference what she fears.
When she says, I want to be hot when I get 18, but dont make look like a man, than thats what she said. You could be productive and suggest something, but you dont.
For those who mind reading how she is doing, we stick to 5x5. Didnt increase weights yet, still with empty bar, but she likes it, and said alone because of the fact she never felt that easy in keeping good posture, she wants to continue. I think we will start soon with weights.
I didnt had time to check Lifting rules for women yet, but I think she should stick to 5x5 for the next 6 months and then well see.