we have been doing some very rough surveys with our students
out of 2 groups of approx 30 21 yr old girls
we got a rough list of their ideal man parameters
1) humour, you have to be able to make em laugh
4) not being a fratboy
5) broad shoulders and 6 pac.
6) money, not loads, just enough that it isn't a struggle
sounds easy eh!
So from what they said, you need to spend as much time on your banter/personality as anything else.
if you don't believe me, think of physical rejects like woody allen, funny is good