Lately as both men and women we have worried to much anout what others think and the fear of being alone. No this is not some religous spew. Our society has place the norm as what the masses are doing. well, i for one think thats a load of crap.
we as human being only answer to one person ourselves. we must ask ourselves id f what we do sits with us. as for being alone, we are never alone. i have found out recently that less you acutally care what people think or feel the better you feel.
i mean i have an ex-wife, i tried being pleasent for a couple of years (no luck), she thout me being nice was a sign of weakness. the only people that anyone needs is family. people will come to you when you distant yourself. now never live like a hermit, you know what they say about the quiet ones.