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Time Between Dates With New Girl


#1

So I'm 22 and have been doing the friends with benefits thing for a while. Been single since high school. I met a girl who I click with more than any I've met yet and I'd like to wifey her. I also don't wanna spook her off.

How long do you guys wait between setting up dates with a new girl? We've had two dates and I spent the night date #2. How do I proceed so this doesn't become just another occasional casual hookup situation?


#2

Since you want to “wifey” her why don’t you just skip all the formalities of dating and getting to know her really, really, really well and just ask her to marry you via text message? That’s what I would do, anyway. Good luck!


#3

We need pictures of the girl.


#4

[quote]TargetBrand wrote:
So I’m 22 and have been doing the friends with benefits thing for a while. Been single since high school. I met a girl who I click with more than any I’ve met yet and I’d like to wifey her. I also don’t wanna spook her off.
[/quote]
Jesus dude. Don’t be so eager to lock it down, trust me. Start at the start and see where it goes; don’t create the ending in your head before you’ve even been on the ride.


#5

[quote]csulli wrote:

[quote]TargetBrand wrote:
So I’m 22 and have been doing the friends with benefits thing for a while. Been single since high school. I met a girl who I click with more than any I’ve met yet and I’d like to wifey her. I also don’t wanna spook her off.
[/quote]
Jesus dude. Don’t be so eager to lock it down, trust me. Start at the start and see where it goes; don’t create the ending in your head before you’ve even been on the ride.[/quote]


#6

[quote]TargetBrand wrote:
How do I proceed ?[/quote]

ummm, Don’t be stupid and ask her when the next time she’d like to go out is or anything…

Jesus Christ. Is dating really this hard?

“hey, I really enjoy hanging out with you, and the last two dates have been a blast. We should grab some drinks/go see a movie/eat at a steak house/go to this concert soon, what do you think?”


#7

[quote]TargetBrand wrote:
How long do you guys wait between setting up dates with a new girl? We’ve had two dates and I spent the night date #2. How do I proceed so this doesn’t become just another occasional casual hookup situation?[/quote]

Dunno. If I really liked a girl, I tended to make plans before I left.

Not exactly the voice of a multiple-dater here, but I do remember the infatuation phase pretty intensely. We couldn’t get enough of each other and ended up seeing each other during basically all our free time, all but immediately, so it just kind of happened.


#8

[quote]Derek542 wrote:
We need pictures of the girl. [/quote]

Seriously, we need to get back to this policy. Also, a vid of your game, at at least 80% of your max so we can check for depth and but wink.

OP, what exactly dud you eat yesterday?


#9

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#10

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]TargetBrand wrote:
How do I proceed ?[/quote]

ummm, Don’t be stupid and ask her when the next time she’d like to go out is or anything…

Jesus Christ. Is dating really this hard?

“hey, I really enjoy hanging out with you, and the last two dates have been a blast. We should grab some drinks/go see a movie/eat at a steak house/go to this concert soon, what do you think?”[/quote]

I dunno Beans. That’s pretty beta bro. Where’s the dread game?

/sarcasm


#11

[quote]batman730 wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]TargetBrand wrote:
How do I proceed ?[/quote]

ummm, Don’t be stupid and ask her when the next time she’d like to go out is or anything…

Jesus Christ. Is dating really this hard?

“hey, I really enjoy hanging out with you, and the last two dates have been a blast. We should grab some drinks/go see a movie/eat at a steak house/go to this concert soon, what do you think?”[/quote]

I dunno Beans. That’s pretty beta bro. Where’s the dread game?

/sarcasm[/quote]

OP for the love of God don’t contact this girl again. She might really like you or she might be a vengeful feminist that’s setting you up for a false rape accusation. There’s no way to be sure! Save yourself!


#12

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]batman730 wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]TargetBrand wrote:
How do I proceed ?[/quote]

ummm, Don’t be stupid and ask her when the next time she’d like to go out is or anything…

Jesus Christ. Is dating really this hard?

“hey, I really enjoy hanging out with you, and the last two dates have been a blast. We should grab some drinks/go see a movie/eat at a steak house/go to this concert soon, what do you think?”[/quote]

I dunno Beans. That’s pretty beta bro. Where’s the dread game?

/sarcasm[/quote]

OP for the love of God don’t contact this girl again. She might really like you or she might be a vengeful feminist that’s setting you up for a false rape accusation. There’s no way to be sure! Save yourself![/quote]

I feel like this thread is missing some heroine. Also, how does her hair smell??


#13

[quote]jbpick86 wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]batman730 wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]TargetBrand wrote:
How do I proceed ?[/quote]

ummm, Don’t be stupid and ask her when the next time she’d like to go out is or anything…

Jesus Christ. Is dating really this hard?

“hey, I really enjoy hanging out with you, and the last two dates have been a blast. We should grab some drinks/go see a movie/eat at a steak house/go to this concert soon, what do you think?”[/quote]

I dunno Beans. That’s pretty beta bro. Where’s the dread game?

/sarcasm[/quote]

OP for the love of God don’t contact this girl again. She might really like you or she might be a vengeful feminist that’s setting you up for a false rape accusation. There’s no way to be sure! Save yourself![/quote]

I feel like this thread is missing some heroine. Also, how does her hair smell??[/quote]

More importantly is she a squirter??


#14

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]jbpick86 wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]batman730 wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]TargetBrand wrote:
How do I proceed ?[/quote]

ummm, Don’t be stupid and ask her when the next time she’d like to go out is or anything…

Jesus Christ. Is dating really this hard?

“hey, I really enjoy hanging out with you, and the last two dates have been a blast. We should grab some drinks/go see a movie/eat at a steak house/go to this concert soon, what do you think?”[/quote]

I dunno Beans. That’s pretty beta bro. Where’s the dread game?

/sarcasm[/quote]

OP for the love of God don’t contact this girl again. She might really like you or she might be a vengeful feminist that’s setting you up for a false rape accusation. There’s no way to be sure! Save yourself![/quote]

I feel like this thread is missing some heroine. Also, how does her hair smell??[/quote]

More importantly is she a squirter??[/quote]

Should you get engaged, how do you feel about GPS tracking?


#15

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]jbpick86 wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]batman730 wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]TargetBrand wrote:
How do I proceed ?[/quote]

ummm, Don’t be stupid and ask her when the next time she’d like to go out is or anything…

Jesus Christ. Is dating really this hard?

“hey, I really enjoy hanging out with you, and the last two dates have been a blast. We should grab some drinks/go see a movie/eat at a steak house/go to this concert soon, what do you think?”[/quote]

I dunno Beans. That’s pretty beta bro. Where’s the dread game?

/sarcasm[/quote]

OP for the love of God don’t contact this girl again. She might really like you or she might be a vengeful feminist that’s setting you up for a false rape accusation. There’s no way to be sure! Save yourself![/quote]

I feel like this thread is missing some heroine. Also, how does her hair smell??[/quote]

More importantly is she a squirter??[/quote]

its all coming together now…


#16

[quote]jbpick86 wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]jbpick86 wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]batman730 wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]TargetBrand wrote:
How do I proceed ?[/quote]

ummm, Don’t be stupid and ask her when the next time she’d like to go out is or anything…

Jesus Christ. Is dating really this hard?

“hey, I really enjoy hanging out with you, and the last two dates have been a blast. We should grab some drinks/go see a movie/eat at a steak house/go to this concert soon, what do you think?”[/quote]

I dunno Beans. That’s pretty beta bro. Where’s the dread game?

/sarcasm[/quote]

OP for the love of God don’t contact this girl again. She might really like you or she might be a vengeful feminist that’s setting you up for a false rape accusation. There’s no way to be sure! Save yourself![/quote]

I feel like this thread is missing some heroine. Also, how does her hair smell??[/quote]

More importantly is she a squirter??[/quote]

Should you get engaged, how do you feel about GPS tracking?[/quote]

Quality questions. Also, OP, you should determine if you can get strange on the side if she decides post marriage not to give it up on the regular.

If not then you should start figuring out now how to avoid telling her you got herpes.


#17

so meta