I am a strict Christian man; I try and make my family attend church every Sunday and strive to look after the moral and spiritual well-being of my son. He is 14. Considering the declining moral values of many of the youth of today, coupled with the corruption inherit in our society we made an agreement several years ago that he should not start dating until he was 15.
However, recently, I think that he has broken that very promise. He seems relectunt to go to church, is not as open with me anymore, and does not seem to enjoy participating in family prayer as he once did. To my mind there is a strong possibility that he has broken his promise and is dating some immoral wench who is trying to turn him away from the Lord.
My suspicions were confirmed last week when I found, hidden, in his room a magazine containing images of nude males. I believe that his girlfriend has left this there, and she has possibly used it to arouse herself before they had sex. What should I do? How do I confront him about breaking his promise, his chastity, and his commitment to the Lord all for some immoral woman?