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I really love women. I love the way they smell, feel, walk, talk, eat, sleep, bitch, every aspect. As a result of this the number of women I’ve slept with is quite high (out of the double digits/not over 200). I’ve never had the need to cheat and have had a couple longterm relationships. Point is I’m starting to think that a change is in order.

The other week one of my very close female friends (who I never slept with) set me up with a girl who as I see it and she has explained is not a ho and very down to earth. We go out have some dinner. Conversation is great, complements and wine are flowing, having a great time. Long story made short we end up back at my house and she’s telling me how handsome she’s always thought I was and starts licking my neck. I figure damn she’s a sexy little kitten who needs a hitten so WTF. Now things are cool, in fact she’s got permasmile every time I’m round but I have a feeling things won’t last long. I’ve never called myself a player but the title has been branded on me by quite a few. What should I do?

You like the way women bitch, I bet you wouldn’t be able to handle 5 minutes in my house. My mom screams her brains out.

And another thing IN THE 100’s? I’d rather pay you then a trainer to give me advice. Is $3500 a week enough to hang out with you and learn the way. Haha.

(P.S. i’m just joking and doing fine on my own but the 100’s is impressive.)

Well, the real question is do you want to continue that way for life?

It all gets down to that. When you are 80 do you want to look back on your life and know that the # now is in the 4 digit range, or do you want to be talking on the phone with your great grandkids?

I had a similar dilemma just after christmas this year. I met a great girl and everything was great until she found out a bit about my past. I was a bit of a womanizer who would never stay with anyone for more than a second night usually. The way I explained it was that she was different (because she was) and the reason I never stayed with anyone else was because I refused to settle for the wrong girl and wouldn’t just go out with a girl for the sake of it. This turned my womanizing ways into a way to make her feel special because she felt like she was the one because I wanted to stay with her. To cut a long story short it worked and we actually fell in love and are engaged!! That’s my story and I hope it gives you food for thought at least…good luck man…

Stu.

Stu’s way would work. It’s about the best spin you could put on things.

I’m sure I am going to be flamed for saying what I am about to say, but I really don’t care. I don’t know, I may be in the minority, but I think having 100+ sexual partners is anything but “impressive”. To be honest, I don’t care about someone else’s sexual history…hey, more power to you for being a ladies man bro! But I don’t think it is anything to be proud of as alluded to by bobopunxs. I’m not saying I’m one of those “it’s immoral to have that many partners” people. All I am saying is that I could never envision myself having so many partners and think to myself, “wow that is pretty cool!” (not that I am saying you do that Wideguy). In any case, shit…if you like the girl, than give it a go! You won’t be labeled less of a man if you settle down and give this relationship a try. It sounds to me that you are starting to get tired of your lifestyle and starting to question if you want to continue with the “wham, bam, thank you mame” scenario.

Granted, I have never been that guy who sleeps with a girl on the first date or second or whatever and then moves on to the next one, so I am no expert. But I can see how that would start to get old after awhile. But like I said, if you dig the girl, that give it a go. Don’t question it, just go with what feels right.

There was another guy on here a couple of years back that liked to brag about all his conquests. I can’t remember his name. I wonder what happened to him. Do any of you long-timers remember his name?

As a general rule, I always divide the number a guy says by 2 and multiply the number a girl says by 2.

I’m familiar with the rule of 2 scrub. With that in mind if a girl ever aks hopefully she knows the rule too so I don’t seem like such a slut. Like I said I’m not ashamed/bragging it’s just the way it is. However, stu’s advice makes alot of sense and while for some reason I never really thought about it like that it’s not to far from the truth.

WIDEGUY: Maybe you should consider writing an e-book, if any ‘technique’ is in question. J/K

Yeah, Avoids Roids, I think his name was Wilt.

And wideguy, the only words of wisdom I can offer you, man, is to get down to your local clinic and get an HIV test done.

Wait, I’m confused. She wants you, she’s hot, and she’s not a hooker. So what is the problem?

The Rule changes for gay men. Multiply by 25. Haha. Just kidding. Sort of. I do know a switch hitter who’s messed around with a number in the 4 digits. Those people are just greedy.

I don’t swing from any tree but he pussywillow…I don’t know what that means. Anyway that’s been my attitude exactly scrub this girls hot, she want’s the shaggins and I’m single. I guess I’m getting more mature/changing which is a good thing either that or I need to up my anti-E’s.LOL

They’re called standards, get some. :wink:

I’d be happy wth one right now!

I’ve only slept with 2 girls that I could say I regret. One was in a menaige-a-trois and her friend was real sexy. The other was on of my friends girlfriends but he was sort of a dick and treated her like shit + she and I ended up going out for a while and are still Friends (and she’s the only girl I’ve ever met who can ride hole1-hole2 reverse cowgirl with a steady pace). So I don’t feel I have a lack of morals.

I’ve only slept with 2 girls that I could say I regret. One was in a menaige-a-trois and her friend was real sexy. The other was on of my friends girlfriends but he was sort of a dick and treated her like shit + she and I ended up going out for a while and are still Friends (and she’s the only girl I’ve ever met who can ride hole1-hole2 reverse cowgirl with a steady pace). So I don’t feel I have a lack of morals.

That post I posted didn’t come out right.

Let’s just say it’s been a while.

Dude, what is hole1-hole2 reverse cowgirl? I’m going camping with this chick this weekend so it would be cool if I had some new tricks in my bag.