I was wondering how many of you believe that there is a person (of the opposite sex mind you) in the world that is the “ONE” for you. Some people use the term “soulmate”, but I seem to realate better to ‘the one’. You see I’ve was with a girl for 10 years (married for 5) up until December of '03. I finally came to the conclusion that she wasn’t ‘the one’. I mean I loved her dearly, but I don’t believe that she felt the same about me. Now before you finish thinking about all the fine flaming remarks you’d like to type right about now, let me explain myself. I was raised to believe that you only have sex after marriage. Well, that didn’t happen. What did happen is that I stayed with the first girl I ever slept with. As well ‘I’ believed she was ‘the one’(partially due to my upbringing), but there were many signs that made me believe that I wasn’t ‘the one’ for her. I don’t know if this makes sense to anyone else other than me, but I need the woman that I’m going to spend the rest of my life with to be ‘the one’ as well I need to be ‘the one’ for her.
Sooner or later she would have left me. She was just afraid of not having anyone, that’s why she hadn’t yet. Now, if you do believe that there is such a person out there for you, what if they were born in China or Brazil? Do you believe that if you were meant to be togther that some way some how you’d meet? I’m not to sure about it. Anyway just wanted to see what you guys/gals thought.