Even though my legs are fairly small still (not gurly though lol) in size I feel they are well developed cause of all the quad/ham work (squats of course) I've done thusfar. I just got to add at least another 100-200 lbs to my squats to get them size and them beast looking legs:D.
I understand what you're saying though about them guys who have legs like a young girl. I usually can tell if a guy is serious about his leg training by how thick or big their legs are.
I was born with shitty calves though that's for sure lol!
I had a friend wait an ex-friend who I took working out with me. Well one day we did a brutal leg workout. One of those damn I think I overdid it barely can walk properly workouts. Guess what ? He hasn't worked out with me sense really. He was horrible as a person and just as horrible physically when it came to pushing ones limits and staying dedicated.
Guess what I'm getting bigger/stronger/smarter and he's probably going to be the same weakass dipshit for the rest of his life.
When In the gym I keep hush hush and only talk to the bigger guys who compete or actually look like they workout there body as a whole.
Yet for those other yuppies, I always force myself to mentally say "fuck them". Don't worry about other people. Cause most the time it's a huge fucking waste of my time really thinking of what he/she is doing wrong.
I try to stick with like-minded dedicated people. My problem is those fucking peole are RARE in most gyms today. Our freakin' culture for the most part.
Ok I'm done lol.