This is actually not true at all. Most of the guys on here are more than willing to help. People make mistakes by doing the following: Starting a shit cycle and asking for help after they are already into it, not posting any stats, not telling anything about their diet besides it is "good" or "perfect", and then getting all shitty and in their feelings when people tell them something that they don't really want to hear. People often ask for help without really putting in any effort, and then get all pissy when they are told something that hurts their poor little feelings.
Gear, diet, and training is all a game of numbers. People who speak generally won't get the help that they need.
Guys also don't want to help someone who isn't putting in the effort and research to help themselves.
Take this advice and you'll get all the help that you need...