BoogaBrain, it’s ironic that you mentioned church. Actually, a friend and I have been talking about attending the church right down the road from my house because some of the hottest girls in town go there.
And we have the inside scoop because a mutual friend said she would introduce us to some of the “bling, blings” if you know what I mean. And we’ve been meaning to do this, but the last couple weekends we have been out too late on Saturday night and have not made it to church on Sunday morning. But you can bet that I will go. I know, it seems bad to go to church to find a girl. I actually was going back to church recently for the spiritual part of my life that has been missing. So I bet I can kill two birds with one stone.
I would like to train with some females at my gym, and occassionally I can get a female friend to come with me. But I've realized that if you don't look "big" people don't care how you train or want your advice. I'm a small guy, so the only time anyone can tell that I work out is if they see me without my shirt or if they happen to grab my tight arms, chest or ass!
And I’ve been keeping myself open to meeting new people everywhere I go. In fact, I shop at Publix all the time. Well, one day I was going to ask one of the cashier’s out. Then I found out she was 17! Needless to say, my younger brother is dating her now. And most of the other girls are young too. I seriously need someone over 21.
I work for United Way, so the only time I meet people within my age group is when they are volunteering on one of my committees, or if I am volunteering for one of our agencies. And I've met a few people, but nothing has come out of it.
I’m definitely living my life now and having fun (I had a bad breakup last April that affected me for many months afterward). So maybe I’ll just happen to meet someone as I’m out doing my own thing. It would be nice if it happened sometime soon!
I hope that summer is better. I’m much more active in the summer, and maybe I can find some hot spots to meet a nice T-woman.
Thanks for all the advice! You guys have made some great suggestions. Hey Chris Shugart, when are we going to get the T-mag Dream Date Contest in effect?