I have a feeling that this thread could take up the whole forum but I just needed some objective opinions from people that don’t know me. I love my T-family and need some of their honest opinions.
I’ll start off by saying that I met my brothers girlfriend and at one point we go into a debate, pretty heated I might add. It was cool that we agreed to disagree so here’s how it went.
To summarize a very long discussion I told her about my theory about why promiscuous men are seen as studs and promiscuous women are seen as sluts.
I noted that for a man to get laid it takes some “game” for lack of a better word. A man cannot sit at the end of the bar and chew on a straw and throw back his hair and smile. It’s also not wise to pound beers with the boys and beat themselves on the chest. Game would be a personality, ability to talk to someone, have a sense of humor, manners, things of that nature. If a guy wants to “hook up” he must put all these things together to attract a woman, and more likely than not, go up and pursue the women. While it does happen, and I love it when it does, women rarely come up and initiate a conversation with a man. If a guy can go out, whether it be a bar, supermarket, you name the function, and consistently get numbers and the such, he is deemed a stud. This is my observation but I could be wrong.
WOMEN. God I love you guys! Ok, if a woman wants to get laid out it takes little effort if no effort at all. I’ll address the difference about men and women and sexual attitudes in a few minutes. She can go to a bar or outing and pick up with ease and frequently, much like my bowels after several MD6 and a few cups of coffee. She does not need charm or game to go home with someone that evening. Yes I know that is not the goal of everyone that goes out, men or women. Since women don’t have to lift a finger to get a hook up they have a bit of power over men in these situations. The smoothest males wins. Women that do this can be seen as sluts since they are abusing this power. Ladies, you can go out, dress provacatively, toss the hair and give a 5 second stare and a smile and that’s usally the green light for us guys.
After our little debate I started to think a little more about the woman part. The thing I wish I could take back was that I used the term “abuse” their power. Women have a sex drive equal to or greater than men in a lot of instances. They should be able to sleep around with as many men as they want with no stigma attached to them, if that’s what they want.
Women sexual attitude vs, Men's. I can't tell you the study, it was in college a few years ago but it was something to effect that our biology effects how we view procreation. This isn't fact or anything, it's something I remember from Pysch classes, although I have killed off most of those brain cells with Jack Daniels. Women have a limited amount of eggs. Suppose they live 70 years and start their periods at age 10. Take in consideration menopause and do some math, she ovulates around 480 times. I simply took 30 years of menstrating times 12 months in a year. While she is not consciously thinking these things, her body knows, hey, save this egg for something useful. It's hard to argue or beat mother nature.
MEN, spread the seed. Simple
To end this long rambling, I just want some feedback on this. I’m not standing up and saying what is what, but here’s somethings I have thought about.
(Dear T-God, don’t let me get lynched by my fellow T-People)