I can’t advise you to take drugs, as I wouldn’t feel comfortable doing so, however I can give you advice on harm minimisation based on the limited amount of knowledge I have.
As a female, the doses you want to take will be more than enough too see accruation in lean muscle mass, as females tend to be more sensitive to the anabolic and androgenic side effects on anabolic steroids (which isn’t suprising as women produce about 10 times less testosterone than males do), women have a different biology to men, however they still secrete LH and FSH from the anterior pituitary. Using androgens will inhibit this secretion via a negative feedback loop and since LH and FSH for women interacts with the ovaries, and the ovaries produce a portion of a woman’s testosterone, progesterone and most of estrogen, these hormonal parameters will be impacted, that being said I’m not extremely educated on as to how anabolic steroids specifically impact the female reproductive system, so I’m not sure as to what the severity of the impact on estrogen and progesterone will be, however like men you’re natural testosterone will likely decline, you may have irregular menstrual cycles or not have one at all, and when you come off the anabolics you probably won’t feel so great for a period of time (granted women bounce back faster than men)
You want to take oxandrolone and methenolone together, well the question to this is, have you taken oxandrolone before and have you taken methenolone before? If not, stick to one or the other, as if you decide to employ polypharmacy like tactics (stacking) right off the bat and you lose hair, you’re breasts shrink, you have clitoral hypertrophy you’ll think “well shit, which one of these agents caused it, which one can’t I take again”, you won’t know and will therefore have to risk further virillization on the next cycle. Taperings fine, esp if you are afraid of side effects, smart to start as low as possible in that case.
As to what’s a good plan to build muscle, how to eat etc. That’s entirely up to you’re body type, metabolism, response to training and whatnot, I can reccomend a diet to bulk up, however without personally knowing you and how you function on a day to day basis it’d be foolish to take my dietary advice ya know. What exactly are you’re goals? Do you want to compete, do you want to be buff like a well trained male, or do you just want a nice, lean toned physique?
May I ask why you want to be using anabolic steroids in the first place? You look like an attractive woman, it isn’t as if there’s anything wrong with the way you look in the first place, you already look very well developed with regards to muscularity for a woman, as in you already look more defined than about 99.9 prrercent of the women that I know (then again I’m a teenager therefore I don’t know too many muscular women).
As to being scared about virillization, the answer if simple, if you notice virillization… Stop taking whatever you’re taking, if you notice hairloss then stop using anabolic steroids.
Whats you’re workout routine currently look like, how’s you’re diet, how much weight are you looking to gain, do you mind gaining fat along with the muscle, this will all factor into the dietary and training advice I and possible others may give you.
Remember to moniter lipids, BP, and whatnot. Var is frequently faked, I’ve used what I assume to be real Anavar once (25mg/day), it shot up by BP very high, made me look hard as a rock, stronger, you name it, Anavar is frequently mislabeled as mild… But if you get real Anavar its strong shit, at least in my case. There’s some unique and interesting mechanisms Anavar has to aid in lipolysis and strength gains, however there’s no point going into them, I will say it’s an interesting drug though. Id get a steroid testing kit if you want to take Anavar or primo, as theyre both commonly counterfeited. While it isn’t a big deal if I get a dbol/winny mix with var, for a woman such a mix will likely cause irreversible virillization due to the dbol.
I assume you’re aware of the potential long term cardiovascular complications that can arise with long term anabolic steroid use, as well as the potential for irreversible virillization.