I used to bounce at a strip club, and sort of dated one or two. Sort of, because one would just call me up drunk looking for sex every once in a while, and another was 9 years older than me so we just went to restaurants and watched TV a lot. At the particular club I worked at, I know that about half drank heavily right in the club, or did other stuff I made it my business to NOT know about. There really are some very nice, non-insane non-coke fiend girls (I’m neighbors with a former coworker), but they’re definitely in the minority.
On the downside, this could be about manipulating you for money, a place to crash when they’re shitcanned, or to be the daddy she never had. I’ve seen all those before, it’s kinda sad seeing a guy get played so a girl can powder her nose. Or she might not have bad intentions, and really want to do something outside the club. Bottom line, call her, go out, figure it out from there. classy but not dumb, and don’t spend a lot if you do ending up meeting up.
Damn Greg getting some great advice here,seems like a few of us fitness bastards have been in your shoes…One quick story I met a stripper and banged her from time to time(and just as Loop said i believe, I took command,was’nt intimadated,etc…)So I would call her as I needed and did not let her take control…Anyway one of my buddies who is not very goodlooking,classy,or smart about girls started “dating” one of this girls co-workers,my other friend and I told him all the time not to get in too deep,don’t expect a real realtionship etc…Well long story short he kept on seeing her(6 months or so),paying for her drugs,drinks,driving her around and all that nonsense,and my poor buddy NEVER even once got his dick touched more then alittle teasing like he would get in the club!!! She spotted him,controled him with her looks(and she was’nt even that hot)and then robbed him and he never even blew a load! I hate to see that,but hey I was a good friend and warned him all I could so its not my fault…sorry to ramble guys,but this story was relavent to the situation…BTW this all just happened this past summer…
Greg you sound like you have your head on your shoulders so bang this chick a few times,and have fun man!!
Your buddy sounds like a poor bastard! I definitly do not want to end up like that! Thanks for the cautionary tale, man.
Thanks to everyone for all the good advice. I have a pretty clear idea of what needs to happen now (HIT & RUN). I’m sure as fuck not going to blow a bunch of money and I will not be intimidated.
I’m surprised that Avoids Roids is the only person so far that has mentioned the possibility of getting an STD. Any woman can have a disease, but at some point you have to weigh the probabilities of the situation. The only groups of women that I can imagine being more likely to have an STD than strippers are prostitutes and porn stars. If you do have sex with this girl, for the sake of yourself and anyone that you may sleep with in the future, get tested afterwards.
Next time she asks you to go see her, say Monday, say yes and dont ever show up. Just drag your ass there 3-4 days later. That way, having wondered 3-4 why she could not control you, and BANG you show up, if she does really dig you, shell be the one rolling the red carpet for you.
Otherwise, if you get no answer or the cold shoulder, you have an idea how replaceable you were.
Of course, this wont work with the more sane, educated, intelligent strippers. But thats just one of the ways to test the waters without even spending money or losing your life waiting for her verdict.
LMFAO at your “little bunny… Big bad wolf analogy…” Very SWINGERS…
Brass Rail, huh ? I broke up with a girl a few years back and she was offered a job there… She had the body of a stripper (woohoo) but she was an emotional & psychological wreck.
Whoever posted above about us guys being led by our dick by a hot-bodied chick is 100% right. Stupidly, I went so into debt dating this girl it took me years to get out. What credit score ?!
The whole thing is, Greg98, get your nutsack in order and call her… It’s all about getting to know her and deciding if it’s worth pursuing.
It’s gonna take some time to figure out if she’s in the game for the long haul or if you just want a piece and jet.
to finish my story up heres how my “breakup” happened
I would hang out and party with these girls til all hours of the night and then when it would come time for me to leave she would break my balls calling me a no hang and whatnot.I go to work at like 7am and am a professional so i feel i was able to say what I did. So one friday night it was like 3am or so and I was getting ready to leave and she broke into her usual no hang rant so i just said fuck this I’m sick of these girls anyway and i just said “look maybe if I was stuffing several grams of blow up my nose like you I could hang,but I don’t”!! She shot back with some stupid response so then i went on to ask her how long she figured her body would hold up to a steady diet of coke,pills,weed,and vodka(I never ONCE witnessed this girl eat!!)She was like fuck you blah,blah.blah…Anyway I never called her again and she stopped calling me after about a week…My poor bastard buddy continued to hang out with these chicks for a few more months until he walked into a bedroom and saw “his” girl blowing some stranger…dumbass
Damm we need more threads like this.Fucking strippers is a science. Not many are good at it and there are a few way to go about it. But be very carefull while hunting these wild beasts…
In my wilder days, I dated a stripper. I will not say that they are all evil or on drugs, but some are. Most strippers that I knew used the ?Cookie Box? to manipulate and control. It really depended on what they were into, money or power. For me it was way too much heart ache and drama. The only advice that I would give, is to watch out for ulterior motives in everything.