For one i dont think open homosexuals should be in the military. But since they are, should a straight guy be forced to shower with them? The answer is no. For the same reason you wouldn't make women shower with men. It has nothing to do with anatomy. Most adult men have seen tits and vagina and most adult women have seen a penis. It has to do with sexual attraction between the sexes. This is why women don't shower with men. It is also why gay men shouldn't shower with straight men.
As you know, in America today, political correctness reigns supreme. This is why gays are even allowed in the military. In reading about this topic on other forums, some of the answers disturbed me a great deal. One answer was "a straight guy should not be worried about a gay guy looking at him in the shower because guys look at each other all the time in the shower". I thought is this person slow??? It's about the intent, not the look, and more than likely if a gay man looks at a straight man in the shower, its with a sexual intent.
Another argument was "if a gay guy checks you out, you should take it as a compliment and quit being a bigot". I think that most straight men would be disturbed about being the object of another mans sexual desire and would find it disgusting, not "take it as a compliment". It makes it seem like if a straight guy who would find it repulsive to have a man desiring him, he (the straight guy) is the one with the problem. No most straight men would not "take that as a compliment". Unless he's been castrated by sensitivity training or political correctness. I think this is just another attempt to push homosexuality is everyone's face. Is it now considered bigotry to not want another man flirting with you? Will it be considered hate and homophobia to for a straight man to only have sex with women?