Nope. None of those will work.
Try this. It's an old spiritual axiom of sorts, and I'm not sure of its origin, but it seems to work for me- When I am in conflict with my surroundings, It is I who is in conflict- Not my surroundings.
What I get from this is that it is not the world around me that needs to change to accommodate my discomfort or state of un-ease, It is I who needs to change.
If you can work that into a regular repertiore of thinking when things are getting sideways on you, life will get a little more manageable.