You, and only you, can make shit happen in your own life. You make the choices and you reap the rewards or suffer the consequences, depending on those choices.
Most will feel lost coming out of college, it's when the real world and "life" starts. It's gonna be fucking awesome, but you have to work for it.
Me? Well, I could use a few more good friends since I've lost a few along the way, but apart from that life is only getting better.