Mday… awesome work thus far! You certainly have a well thought out goal(s) and plan of attack… topped with a great attitude nothing will stop you my friend!
I look forward to watching your progression, and am excited to see what the culmination of your efforts will reveal at the power lifting event you have decided to enter.
With regards to your question… yes, I too am “results oriented”. I (like most men) am very visual as well. I want to lose fat, gain muscle and get stronger. I know I am getting stronger… but I look in the mirror and I don’t see the 6 pack abs, the spider web vacularity and the cross striations yet. I mean, c’mon… what gives! I have been busting my ass for 6 weeks now! Sheesh… (or as SKIDMARK likes to say… “FEH?!”) How long is this gonna take?
What I do, how I handle it… is I look at it like a bank account. You keep putting a little bit in at a time… consistently and continuous… then one day you look at the balance… and it is a pleasant surprise. This adds fuel to the desire and the determination.
I also use peoples comments (negative and positive) to fuel my psyche. Especially the negative. Boy, are they gonna be surprised in a couple of months.
With a specific goal in mind, you should be fine with this matter anyhow.
And… with your wife by your side, you are very lucky! My wife supports me and my endeavours whole heartedly… but I doubt I could get her out of bed at O’dark-thirty in the morn to go to the gym.
My kudos to your lovely lady as well…