If I may just share one thing with you guys that has nothing to do with testosterone.
There was a period in my life that I was desperate to find a girlfriend. I’d go from bar to bar, walking in, and scanning the room for potential targets to go talk to. I’m certain the women picked up on that immediately. I’d also usually go alone (this is NOT ideal as women need to see that you actually have some friends to ensure you’re not a social outcast).
Later on I’d ensure that I always went out with at least one friend (the more the better). We didn’t scan the room. We just went in to have a drink. We acted like we couldn’t care less if there were any women around. The women started coming to us. That was a period were I was literally having sex with several women a week… sometimes even several a day.
You need to give off the vibe that you really don’t need it… because maybe you already have enough of it. Women will then compete for your attention. If you look needy, they’re gone. If they give you their phone number, don’t call right away. Don’t make dates right away. Make them wait. Make them want it. Be in control of the situation. They will start breaking their heads as to why you aren’t calling them yet and asking them out yet. When you’re with them, talk about THEM all the time, like you are interviewing them. Ask questions, background, interests, careers. Make them feel like you are trying to figure out if they are ‘good enough’ to warrant your attention.
Trust me when I say this works VERY well.
I got so good at it I used to stop women in the street (look up something called ‘daygame’) without coming across as a creep. Basic premise was, “I couldn’t resist coming up and saying hello… you look fucking incredible! Who are you? Where are you from? What do you do?”… and the interview starts. She’s hot, we’ve established that, but there are LOTS of hot girls. Now the interview begins to decide whether or not she’s worthy. Sometimes I’d walk around downtown and get anywhere from 5-10 phone numbers within 2 hours. I’d chat with them for 10 minutes and state that I couldn’t stick around because I needed to be somewhere but that we should pick up the conversation some other time. Then I’d do the, “Here is my cell… put your number in there and I’ll give you a shout at one point”.
I cannot give you any better advice than this. Definitely look into ‘daygame’ as it is absolute gold for this kind of thing.