It wont scar of you have it removed properly-they burn them off then the skin just heals. I had gyno surgery and I understand how embarrassing just admitting to others having a little procedure can be. To this day the only person who actually knows is Bushidobadboy! I haven't even admitted it to any of my friends or family! I lost a little body fat at around the time so it looks like it just disappeared when I cut a bit of weight and gained a bot of muscle.
We live in a world where choices are available to us-It obviously bothers you so take advantage of the fact that you are fortunate enough to have the option available to you to rid yourself of this mole if you choose. Good luck to you if you can get pussy no problem but don't be afraid to get the fucker removed, go heavy with the vitamin E and it will heal in just a few weeks.