I need a guy’s opinion about two phone calls and hiding a cell phone.
Six weeks ago, my boyfriend and I were in bed, and his cop co-worker called and said he had my bf’s ex pulled over for drunk driving. My bf told him that she’s no longer his girlfriend and to give her a ticket. The next day my bf told me he called her to inquire why she dropped his name. I let this slide, but did say that I felt there was no need for him to call her.
Yesterday, I borrowed my bf’s cell phone. He ususally has it on “silent” in his car. I made my call, and, yes I snooped and looked up missed calls and his ex’s number was there. I asked him why she was calling him, and he told me she didn’t. He kept insisting that he hadn’t talked to her for a while. Later, he said he remembered why she called, it was last week friday and she called to invite him to her daughter’s (NOT their child together) 7th birthday party. I asked him why he lied about talking to her and he said he had just forgotten, and that he had no interest in her because she’s a crazy stripper. I said that if he had nothing to hide, then he wouldn’t have to hide his cell phone all the time when I’m over and he wouldn’t have lied to me about them talking on the phone.
Although I believed his explanation yesterday, it’s bothering me today. Aside from this stuff, he treats me very well and our relationship has been otherwise wonderful.
Should I continue to believe him and be sweet to him and go on with the status quo, or should I cut his balls out with one of his fighting knives and feed them to the dog?