Now, I’ve probably got everyone’s attention, I got to make a few comments.
Now I know everyone loves to talk about sex, and that sex sells. And I realize that’s part of the reason beer sells and bodybuilding mags sell and the like. But for God’s sake, I just wish there would be less outward sexual friggin inuendos in this online mag. I mean, don’t get me wrong, and don’t go flammin…its just like, so what if somebody wants to remain celebate…why does everyone have to hear about “penises” and “fucking” in at least one article every week. What if somebody is celibate? Fuck, if we had more of that going on today, and people respected sexuality just a bit more and didn’t treat it as a physical pleasure thing devoid of real meaning, we probably wouldn’t have a lot of social illz.
And don’t go saying well there’s protection this protection that. I’ll grant that. Its just the whole millieu surrounding the presentation of sex. Everything sex. Sex this sex that. I don’t bodybuild to get sex. I bodybuild to look good, which might lead to sex although its not the reason. When I look good, I feel good. Of course I think about sex multiple times a day, I’m a guy. But I just don’t think we need to just always be portraying it as the manly thing to do.
I work with adol. kids who have sexually offended (I am their therapist). Now, I am not saying that this is the cause, but I can say most def. it does not help in the treatment. You got kids trying to learn about appropriate relationships and the value of sex and then every thing from beer to football, to who knows what is sexualized. I understand that many people do this game to look good nekid, but that does not mean we have to trivialize sexual activity or present it as the T-man thing to do under whatever situation.
I love t-mag, I love this board, but I would like to see less sexualized crap in some of the articles. Separate from the other mags. Have class. I know most of the posters on this board have it.
Had to vent.