Sex Drive on Blast & Cruise

[greegi_go]

Wym?

[deanis55]

Directed @lordgains
That is exactly what happened happened to me. Stopped watching porn and shit got real with the wife in the bedroom.

[vacantgardener]

Porn, especially more extreme/fetishized porn can be very bad for a mans brain. Porn has ruined a lot of people’s sex lives, most people would be better without it

[deanis55]

@vacantgardener

Porn has ruined a lot of people’s sex lives, most people would be better without it

I agree 100%. Ive been with my wife for 11 years and after a week of not watching porn our sex life was and still is better then ever.

[unreal24278]

@vacantgardener

Porn, especially more extreme/fetishized porn can be very bad for a mans brain. Porn has ruined a lot of people’s sex lives, most people would be better without it

I think it depends on the context. Pornography can be a useful tool to figure out what one potentially does/doesn’t like in bed. Pornography can also spice up ones relationship (new and exciting ideas). That being said the majority of sex portrayed in pornography is far from realistic. It’s mechanical, at times degrading, it doesn’t focus on female pleasure, consent is rarely mentioned and mainstream pornography appears to be rather extreme/aggressive nowdays

There is a big difference between the latest branded, big name XXX film, amateur pornography and say… playboy magazines (from descending levels of extreme).

[lordgains]

@unreal24278

Pornography can also spice up ones relationship (new and exciting ideas).

To a small extent. It robs you of creativity. It also lets you wanting to recreate the shit you’ve seen which isn’t as much spicing up as it is your brain not being satisfied with what you see. The ever changing girls in porn are not recreatable in a monogamous relationship which becomes a problem for the porn addicted brain.

@unreal24278

That being said the majority of sex portrayed in pornography is far from realistic. It’s mechanical, at times degrading, it doesn’t focus on female pleasure

I had a lot of sex, a lot of it was very pleasurable and degrading for the girl. Actually there seems to be a linear relationship between the two, in my experience. (Clearly you gotta start slow, just a disclaimer lol.) Nobody mentions consent, nobody asks for it, it’s implied. I actually think the only thing in porn sex that most of the time isn’t realistic is the context. I actually think that is a good thing most of the time haha

Enough of that

[unreal24278]

@lordgains

had a lot of sex, a lot of it was very pleasurable and degrading for the girl

I assume a sexual dynamic had been established. I’m aware it isn’t as simple as asking “can I do this/that” during intercourse.

But mainstream pornography would have you believe it’s appropriate to do all sorts of things right off the cuff (not sure how much detail I can go into on here).

To the sexually naieve child/teenager (let’s be honest, exposure to pornography typically happens at a very young age) they may not be able to discern between reality and fantasy given a lack of real world experience… I guess it depends, I never thought pornography was to be taken seriously.

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