Hey so me and my soon to be wife have been together for just over 6 years we have 2 children together my son Ollie is 2 and my daughter Katie is 6 months we are both 25 years old.
Lately things have been getting hard we argue just about every day and if we are together for the whole day usually majority of the day is spent arguing or both in shitty moods,
I am sure she has issues with me but I just want someone else opinion on my issue with her it would be good to have an outside opinion.
So pretty much most days during the week I get home first and start cooking dinner she will come home in a grumpy mood, she snaps at most things I say and will start an argument at just about anything, everything I say is wrong and she will argue the opposite.
Just as everyone does I will get frustrated and angry with not being able to get my point across and she will say i treat her bad and that I am rude to her.
Yes I agree that shouting and swearing at someone is rude and I shouldn’t do it but that is a normal reaction for most people when in an argument isn’t it?
She doesn’t realize that her coming home with a shit attitude and mood and projecting her bad mood on to me is rude, isn’t it?
I am open to admit that maybe I have anger issue and a short fuse but I think she is just as bad as me but she wont admit it or even acknowledge it,
she will and does openly admit that she has nothing to change in our relationship and that it is all me.
I believe that this is a one sides relationship and I don’t see why I have to put in all the work and change my issue when she will carry on treating me how ever she wants.
So that is basically the way I see our relationship.
please give me your opinions male and female would be greatly appreciated.