I don’t mean to be a pain, but I do work out with one of the strongest women in the world right now. I don’t care about her biceps (though she has big guns). I don’t care about her upper back (though I wished my back looked like hers). Neither of these things play into “femininity” or are what make her sexy to this guy.
What makes her sexy is the hard work she puts in, her work ethic, and the way she still carries herself even though she squats 560lbs.
All I’m trying to say is her being true to herself and doing what she wants to do is what makes her hot. Take a lesson and do what you want women - if you want big biceps then bravo. Go get em. Just remember what makes you truly feminine…[/quote]
Why would that make you a pain!? Amen to all of what you said.
You’re right – how a woman feels about herself is what makes her the most sexy. I’m genetically inclined to have big biceps, and I like to train them because they make me feel powerful and sexy. Which is why I’ll never take advice from a coach who tells me to shrink or hide the things that set me apart or make me feel great about myself.