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POLL: Are women as dirty (horny) as men?


#1

I never taking anything at face value when it comes from someone who has something to sell (for example an article in a magazine or some statistic quoted elsewhere) and always prefer real people`s opinions (been there, done that), the question needs to be asked:

Deep down, are women are dirty (horny) as men?

Hypotheses: Under the right conditions. The female does not hold any grudge against her partner(s). She knows that, whatever she asks for, she will not be judged for it. Her partners are always willing to try something new (at least one time, thus allowing any normal fantasy a try). Etc.

(You get the idea, no grounds for inhibitions outside of the female`s mind.)

I ask this because, considering the ladder theory and other articles I read recently, they bizarrelly pointed to the same conclusion: Women, deep down, ARE as horny and dirty as men, it is just that they are constantly advertising the store as open until they DO get the dreamboat who will let them explore/experiment in a playful way as possible.

In short, all that slutty, trashy, show more skin trend would just be revealing the truth: they want it as much (read: GOOD lay) as us.

Both sides (male and female) answers welcome!


#2

I agree. Women are just as horny as men. Im finding more and more that women, even the innocent ones that you might not expect, want sex. Its getting easier and easier for guys. Theres girls at my gym who I talk to once and a while and boom, somehow we end up having sex. You take a girl out and by the second date, if you havent done it already, your having sex. Its not just me, its happening with my friends too. Even those girls who seem to be so nice, they want sex too. Saturday night, me and two friends went to a club, and I was dancing with this girl who was just in Toronto for the weekend, and she whispers in my ear "lets get out of here, I have a hotel down the street". I didnt go, I drove, so my friends had no way of getting home, but I may call her today if I get horny. So yes, women are horny, doesnt make them sluts, they are just like us.


#3

I actually saw this quote first as a note at the bottom of one of Cupcake's posts but I thought it appropriate to bring it up again.

Women say they have sexual thoughts too. They have no idea. It's the difference between shooting a bullet and throwing it. If they knew what we were really thinking, they'd never stop slapping us.

Larry Miller

Women will always claim they're as horny and as dirty as men and it's BS. Sometimes they are, if the hormones are right and everything is the way it should be. But as a rule there's no chance, of course this is on average. There will always be exceptions, I've found active athletic girls are much hornier than non-athletic women but even there, they can't compare to their athletic male counterparts.

STU

ps. I know the vixens are going to disagree with me but what the hell, there it is.


#4

Gee Dan, thanks for the news flash. Duh! :slight_smile:


#5

1) Testosterone drives sexual desire in both men and women.
2) Men have more testosterone than women.

Therefore, men have more sexual desire than women.

...

But women still want to get laid.

Dan


#6

MD: If I recall well, you are a woman. Should that be so, and you have the same viewpoint on sex (drive) as us men, well, congratulations to you! Your boyfriend surely appreciates it.

(MD: By the way... Duh! Yourself!. My orgasms are stronger than yours! ;pppp)


#7

Yes, Dan C, I do believe women are just as horny as men, that is, if they are in touch with their sexual instincts.


#8

Dan McV: I will be back later with a response to the interesting syllogism you presented. Right now, I'm off to Thanksgiving dinner.


#9

Dan, that was always my argument until I heard that estrogens/progestins also play a part in sex drive. Ever been with a girl on the pill who stops taking it and all of a sudden becomes a freezer? It's common. Could be due to conversion to T, not sure. Traditionally, women with decreased libido have been treated with low dose T injections.

Here's my theory on the matter: guys are just naturally horny all the time and we've been that way since puberty. Women have a certain baseline sex drive, with fluctuations in mojo corresponding to hormone surges. IMHO, the difference maker in women is whether or not they've experienced earth-shattering orgasms on a somewhat regular basis. Everyone seems to say that the more sex you have, the hornier you are, and I think this is true. I've been with girls with virtually no appreciation for sex because they didn't know what they were missing (read lame previous boyfriends who never brought them to orgasm). The vixens may disagree, but I've seen the evolution from freezer to freak too many times to dismiss it.

My ex used to tell me how she'd never been so horny before we met because we had such great sex. Granted she could have been just saying that just to boost my ego, but I know she wasn't lying about being a hornball. She'd be sitting in class and out of nowhere she'd get this surge of horniness that she never experienced before. Makes a man feel all warm and fuzzy inside.


#10

Ah, another relevant thread in the off topic section.


#11

Hey Stu,

How many comparisons have you done between athletic women and athletic men?

Not that there's anything wrong with that.


#12

Yes! women are just as horny as men and i've said it before and i'll say it again that men want sex. But, women NEED sex i mean they need the physical validation b/c it tells em that they are hot stuff when their guy or whatever is getting aroused. Which is so cool b/c i would just love to have sex all night long anyway just like sisqo - lumbernac


#13

Haha sisqo. He's such a tiny little dude :slight_smile:


#14

Sure women are as horny as men,(rolls eyes), marry one and they only get hornier! (rolls eyes again) The Man Show goofed on this one time by joking how the porn industry, the prostitute industry, the manwhore industry and the phone-sex industry service who? MEN. 'nuff said.


#15

Well, to be totally honest I'm still attempting to collect data on the female group and I've yet to get started on the males. I admit, it's bad research but it's so much fun!

STU


#16

I was involved with a girl who wanted to do three things: have lots of sex, dance in her underwear, and have more sex. That's it. I should have married that girl. I'm stupid.


#17

SCRUB: Ill second everything you said so far, except for the before pill-after pill thing babes (too small a sample, I had the luck to haveclosed shop` women or condom based birth control).

As for the Ego thing, its like the pudding test: if they ask for a second serving, its because they liked it. Simple as that. Actions speak louder than words. Don`t worry further than that.

Finally, the best sex Ive had is with partners who were in the same T-levels as me (in the sense of sexual appetite). Bizarrely enough, theyre almost always squirters too. I have never seen the low-T version of these babes. Must come with the high-T overall package (know what they want, are not afraid to express it, take what they want, give something back in return, uninhibited, don`t talk during the rough and tumble... in short, breeder-genetic makeup ehehehe).

Its not that I have 3 digit numbers, but I guess the thunder and lightning, like attracts like (sex drive wise), works fine for me in that department. And, sorry for the potpourri type, love is not always a necessity to have fireworks in the sack. But, granted, youll never reach the extasy level of a loving and sexual relationship with one nighters/fuck friends either.


#18

No.


#19

yes, women have just as much desire for sex as men. As for dirty thoughts, any man who thinks men have the market cornered on raunchy thoughts and behaviour has been sadly mislead. Both men and women have been socially conditioned to believe nice girls don't have dirty thoughts and certainly don't express them. I believe a woman who knows herself and does'nt buy into social convention is just as bad (or good) as any man and often worse when it comes to sexual thoughts and behaviours.


#20

Hear, hear Magnus.