It is quite amusing watching this unfold as people try settle on the correct terminology without upsetting anyone:
Just like some penis owners like sex and some don’t.
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many vulva owners don’t or can’t orgasm from penetrative sex alone.
I don’t like this though:
penis-having folks had more frequent sexual “thoughts, fantasies, and spontaneous arousal.”
Is the penis-haver the one who the penis is attached to or the one who has it in an orifice?