Nice pic. You've got a lucky guy.
Like Prof X said, it's not a matter of outright disbelief about your comments.
What you've said so far is you heard from a friend who was at some conference that natural pb is estrogenic because of a spray.
Who was the speaker?
What was the conference?
Why didn't your friend have more info such as any sources cited?
I wasn't trying to be snarky, I just found it odd your friend came back making a comment like that but doesn't seem to have any detailed info about what the speaker said (at least that you've posted).
I googled "estrogenic spray, natural peanut butter" and found everything ranging from how wonderfully healthy natural peanut butter is to avoid it all all costs because it can cause cancer.
Some sites mention sprays, others say no sprays are used at all.
Who do we believe?