[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:
How old were you at the time? If you say anything over 18, then your mom is a total psycho, no offense.[/quote]
Lol… 25years old my man.
She’s a very controlling person. She seems to be unhappy most of the time.
I’ve talked it over with her a few times. She won’t budge. She doesn’t seem to remember most things, flat out denies others, and then says that I might have mental problems.
It’s strange… I had a pretty rough time in my teens. Couldn’t keep a job or get a girlfriend. And we got along great.
But now that I’m self employed, running a good business, married to a great lady and basically am doing well for myself, she’s extremely critical and negative. To the point that I sometimes just can’t bring myself to answer her or even sit in the front of the car with her because the things she talks about are just… why would you dwell on that? And think about it in that way?
I’m trying to stay in touch with her but to be honest, I don’t need this negativity in my life, and she has too much pride to ever change or apologise. I actually have an email from her where she itemises my ‘complaints’ and says at the bottom “I make no apology”.
She is a principal of a school. I think the job has gotten to her but y’know… we all have our crosses to bear.
I used to wish she was supportive etc… but I’m a grown man now. We’re all set on our paths. I’m happy with mine.
But I guess I wouldn’t be writing this if it didn’t cause me some emotional pain.
My wife said recently that if we had children, she wouldn’t want my mother to have anything to do with them after seeing how my mother chats to me.
Fucking sucks hey. But she’s made her bed.